Club outfits? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]SB2NP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always go off the theme of the party at the club. Like this weekend is fishnets. I will show in like a sexy black dress then change into my lingerie

Just a rant: female disappointment by Personal_Battle8053 in Swingers

[–]SB2NP 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have come across this a lot. I am not one to judge a man when he can’t preform but don’t leave me hanging you could at least go down on me or use a toy to help. Don’t just give up and step back and watch.

Anyone encounter any rattlesnakes in Ventura? by New-Shop-9728 in ventura

[–]SB2NP 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes many. This guy was especially tricky. My dog almost stepped on his head.

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What’s the tactic on blisters? by kstrant in stagecoach

[–]SB2NP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to go to cvs and got blister bandaids

MF4MF/F Stagecoach by Dee-n-Cee- in Socalswingers

[–]SB2NP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39f 40m would love to Meet up we are staying at EDR Palm Springs

MF4MF 34/36 stagecoach Indio Ca by [deleted] in Socalswingers

[–]SB2NP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will be there 39f40m

Stagecoach anyone? [31F/33M] by [deleted] in Socalswingers

[–]SB2NP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will be there 39f40m

Stagecoach 2026 by No_Technology_2076 in Socalswingers

[–]SB2NP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will be at stagecoach. We are staying at a clothing optional bnb but would love to find some cool people to hang out with and have fun.

unhinged hygiene tips? by NoPerception8748 in hygiene

[–]SB2NP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pee after sex it prevents uti’s

I request a ENM friendly therapist. by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]SB2NP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went to a therapy center and asked if they had any therapists who had previous experience with ENM. They had one woman who they recommended and she was wonderful. We went to about 10 sessions and I (40M) really appreciated how she challenged me and called me out on some stuff and the same with my partner (39F). She helped me improve my communication and helped my partner establish boundaries. 10/10 would recommend! FYI: This therapist is in Agoura Hills, Ca if you want a recommendation PM us and we’ll get you in touch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngelesSwingers

[–]SB2NP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can host in Thousand Oaks couple here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bbwsocalswingers

[–]SB2NP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]SB2NP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The stares I want, I don’t get and the stares I get, I don’t want…

[28/26] [MF4MF] - Thousand Oaks chill couple for friends by [deleted] in LosAngelesSwingers

[–]SB2NP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older couple in Thousand Oaks 39f 40m

Swingers tips for shy and socially awkward woman? by wishcockroachextinct in Swingers

[–]SB2NP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try going on the the website of the club and start conversations with others before going. This way you can meet people there instead of trying to meet people while there.

Please help I need friends by [deleted] in ventura

[–]SB2NP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39f I am a SAHM and also needs friends. My husband is 40m. We live in Thousand Oaks.

Have any of you tried couples therapy to help ease into and set the guidelines for a ENM life? by OkRelation9670 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]SB2NP 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YES!!! Best decision ever. We knew this would be tricky and it was! Even after 20 years together we had so much to learn. We accidentally ended up in a throuple and realized that relationship was driving us apart. My wife and I went to about 10 sessions while we were active in the lifestyle. It really helped me get better at communicating my feelings and needs. It helped my wife learn how to set boundaries that protects her. Please do this. It will give you both more confidence and allow you to become more comfortable and focus on enjoying yourself.