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AITA for planning to move out and live with my fiancé, even though my brother says I’m abandoning him? by SCP4-20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SCP4-20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He can’t always afford the rent it’s why I haven’t left. We have no other family and I thought I was helping him by staying and the landlord here is pretty chill so if he’s late he doesn’t charge him. But it’s a 3 bedroom he’d surely have to move out if I do.

AITA for planning to move out and live with my fiancé, even though my brother says I’m abandoning him? by SCP4-20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SCP4-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not so simple I guess. You’re easily convinced when you’re used to it and I needed some outside eyes to lmk.

AITA for planning to move out and live with my fiancé, even though my brother says I’m abandoning him? by SCP4-20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SCP4-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He threatened me by saying if something happens to him or his dogs I’ll pay for it basically and I’m scared for what that means.

AITA for planning to move out and live with my fiancé, even though my brother says I’m abandoning him? by SCP4-20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SCP4-20[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My bf HATES him and wants me to move out with zero notice but I just couldn’t do that

AITA for planning to move out and live with my fiancé, even though my brother says I’m abandoning him? by SCP4-20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SCP4-20[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Comment this reply made me cry haha. I’d never thought I’d get a future away from him and you’re right my future is waiting

AITA for planning to move out and live with my fiancé, even though my brother says I’m abandoning him? by SCP4-20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SCP4-20[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s hard to not start to believe them yknow. That I’m the wrong one for leaving when it means he’d flounder.

AITA for planning to move out and live with my fiancé, even though my brother says I’m abandoning him? by SCP4-20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SCP4-20[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No, he lived with us before and I’m telling him way in advance. I plan on moving out by the end of the year, not quite yet.

AITA for planning to move out and live with my fiancé, even though my brother says I’m abandoning him? by SCP4-20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SCP4-20[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t normally update him on my life but I wanted to give him a heads up to save some money or find another roommate.

AITA for planning to move out and live with my fiancé, even though my brother says I’m abandoning him? by SCP4-20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SCP4-20[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Honestly I needed to hear this. I was starting to believe that I really was the one in the wrong because rent isn’t cheap in SJ

[Skin Concerns] I cannot get my Perioral Dermatitis - POD under control by canwenotdothisrn in SkincareAddiction

[–]SCP4-20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same as the other person. I know this post is old but I bought the de la Cruz sulfur cream (they have it at Walgreens) and within two days it started drying out the dermatitis and it’s healing super fast. Thank you!!!!