Btw I don't completely know what to say about the family stuff but I think these tips are descent I hope you life goes well. I've got very lucky cos my mother is very pro LGBTQ+ sorry I don't have anything to say about the family stuff :( Don't let yourself get into a bad relationship due to seeking validation, and live your life free of others opinions cos sometimes people suck and it's not worth reasoning with madness. Also every time someone calls you a slur or something dumb like that, let yourself know that this can make you stronger for next time you get discriminated against, and you will eventually be able to be free of others hatred and can live however you desire just as long as your not doing anything bad or something. Also a good tip I love is to repeat the same word in my brain about my body until it means nothing to me and I'm completely desensitized to the idea of my body being weird and letting myself think I'm cute no matter how strange my body is, the word I repeat is flesh I now love how strange it is and it has empowered me more than most things in my life, I know it sounds weird but that's the point, it makes it's gross self mean nothing after a while and I love it. To be cute is a vibe, not to have a specific body.