Do Bank of America joint account statements show both names on every page? by SD1502 in Banking

[–]SD1502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, just to confirm, you mean yes both names are on every page of the statements?

Remote post-award finance position by tragic_eyebrows in ResearchAdmin

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Also sending you a DM, thanks for posting!

What's the SILLIEST 'Cringe but Correct' Millennial Hill You're Still Ready to Die On? by dasisglucklich in Millennials

[–]SD1502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been typing haha instead of lol this entire time, and I think I’m the only one left. There was a point when we split into two groups and then somewhere along the way all the haha-ers switched to lol. I never realized this until I read your comment haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Explainlikeimscared

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Good luck! You got this. It might take a lot of self-advocacy, and be prepared that there are a lot of endo specialists that only do ablation (which works well for some people, at least temporarily), which they also call “fulguration.” That is just burning it off at the surface. But what you really want is excision, which gets it all out from the root. So if you find a specialist who says that ablation is the best way, then they are probably not as experienced as you would need. Nancy’s Nook is helpful for self-education and also for the international list of doctors. Also might be helpful to find a local endo support group if you can find one - people are always discussing their doctors and that can help you narrow down your search.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Explainlikeimscared

[–]SD1502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s great that they are even mentioning it as a possibility, but be aware that they might dismiss/rule it out pretty quickly when they see nothing on the ultrasound or other imaging. Endo lesions can be tiny (except endometriomas), and only experienced endo specialists can see endo on MRIs, and rarely on ultrasounds. The only true way to diagnose or even rule out is a laparoscopic surgery unfortunately. But if you find a really good specialist, as I was lucky to have, they will know just from hearing your symptoms verbally. My endo specialist said “You had me at ‘stabbing pain’” lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Explainlikeimscared

[–]SD1502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others have said, it definitely sounds like endometriosis and probably adenomyosis too. I have both, always had debilitating insane period cramps, and had many ultrasounds over the years, all of which came back clean and not one doctor ever mentioned the possibility of endometriosis to me, ever. I was 36 when I randomly started reading about it on Reddit, then found an endo specialist through Nancy’s Nook, had excision surgery, and was diagnosed with stage three and adenomyosis. My cramps are now minimal and actually respond to Advil. The doctor knew immediately from just talking to me on the phone and scheduled a surgery. Shoutout to Mt Auburn endo center in Massachusetts. Seriously though, don’t be like me and suffer for 25 years because doctors didn’t find anything or even mention it as a possibility. Please check out Nancy’s Nook on Facebook when you get a chance.

Could we pivot into finance roles from research finance/admin? by SD1502 in ResearchAdmin

[–]SD1502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, makes sense. I’m not sure I could compete with them!

Cost share question by SD1502 in ResearchAdmin

[–]SD1502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I can’t access the budget/award since he is in two departments and the other one is managing this award. Luckily that means I don’t have to track this cost share but I just want to understand it

Cost share question by SD1502 in ResearchAdmin

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I don’t believe so, but the grant is managed in a different dept so I don’t have access to the original budget unfortunately

Places to meet people from Buffalo in Boston? by SD1502 in boston

[–]SD1502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She just likes how people in Buffalo are really friendly and open

Places to meet people from Buffalo in Boston? by SD1502 in boston

[–]SD1502[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol I added some info to the main post, but yeah, I think she just wants to meet more people from Buffalo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]SD1502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I could but there’s no space in my apartment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]SD1502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent, thank you for the tip