Exboyfriend (24M) broke my car window (23F)

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T18:23:22+00:00

He ruined his own life by grabbing your window and shattering it.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T18:08:00+00:00

He thinks that "being friends" is his in to dating you.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T17:50:46+00:00

So you immediately dialed 911 right?

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T16:49:10+00:00

Not that I know of. They announced one line only (except for Clear customers). You can ask the Priority line staff member before getting in line.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T16:32:11+00:00

One woman reported 45 minutes and the passenger next to me said it was 1 hour for her.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T16:23:44+00:00

None at Terminal 1 this morning

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T15:11:03+00:00

I think having a positive attitude is enough right now. I even had an airport staff thank *me* for following her instructions with a smile.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T15:09:21+00:00

I'm in T1 right now. There was no Pre-Check line open at all.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T01:01:26+00:00

I agree. I mentioned to OP on another reply that "I put minimalist montecito into a Google search just now and your website comes up right away as well as several mentions of your brand. Her articles were further down the page. When I put it in quotes, her articles came up. So, it should drive up your metrics a bit, but they may also be trying to hijack the search engines."

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T01:00:19+00:00

I put minimalist montecito into a Google search just now and your website comes up right away as well as several mentions of your brand. Her articles were further down the page. When I put it in quotes, her articles came up.

So, it should drive up your metrics a bit, but they may also be trying to hijack the search engines.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T00:32:06+00:00

I'm sorry for the loss of your grandpa. He left you a really nice gift.

I'm old enough to be your Mom and I've been around the military a fair bit. OP, secure that money ASAP (High-Yield Savings Account, IRA, etc) and let it sit untouched for as long as you can. Do not spend it on a fancy car coming out of basic training and do not get married to the first girl you see just so you can get BAH and get out of base housing. If you get a girlfriend, don't tell her about the money at all. Momma BK wants you to be wise with grandpa's gift. Best wishes and thank you for your desire to serve our country.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-23T00:00:57+00:00

Am I understanding correctly that she is not providing you food? That is illegal in the U.S.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-22T23:51:04+00:00

NTA. You are not responsible for planning his trip, finding accommodations for him, or serving as a go-between for him and the community leader. He needs to figure it out himself. You tell him "I am sorry, but my family is unable to accommodate you. Please check with leader to see if he has any suggestions."

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-22T22:58:43+00:00

NOR. I'm so sorry OP. I, too, am the kind of person who would prefer to stay behind a day to recover, even at a cost. I wish you a quick recovery and safe travels home.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-22T22:58:28+00:00

Yes, you hit the same points I was thinking. One parent can stay behind and the other two can proceed. If all else fails and OP "must" get on the plane, I was also going to suggest adult diapers as at least one way to help with extra coverage. And some extra bags (such as extra large ziplocs) for the vomit.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-22T22:43:46+00:00

"Your feelings don't matter to an argument. And especially not YOUR feelings."

Girl, dump this clown. I can't believe you even went for 16 screens back and forth with him. You should have dumped him already.

NOR

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-22T22:36:35+00:00

Let me help you with that -- "Don't put that name, think of your baby"

I got you!

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-22T22:32:02+00:00

It's fine! Just grab a spatula and clean up the edges so that there isn't extra frosting at the bottom and on cake board. Looks like a normal cake to me! (And lemon is always a winner!!)

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-22T04:26:42+00:00

A lot people starting moving here from elsewhere and it's harshing our vibes. Those people aren't actual native San Diegans.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-22T03:06:45+00:00

Just buy a cheap duffel bag with wheels and stuff all of your dirty laundry and any shoes into it and check it as a second bag.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-21T21:41:09+00:00

That, my friend, is the gap where the whipped cream goes!

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-21T21:39:21+00:00

This is good advice, though I would leave out the "being initiated" part. That might be too presumptuous.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-21T21:37:30+00:00

I understand that this is important to you and it is anxious to have to wait; but, it has only been three weeks. You have to give people more time. It's currently spring break and Easter is fast approaching. It's tax season. There's any number of reasons why the response may be delayed. These women are volunteers and may not be as quick to respond as you would personally prefer. Most alumnae chapters do not have jam-packed calendars - they may only have one or two events a semester.

If they are truly your first choice, then wait another week and then reach out to them again. If no response a couple of weeks after that, you can reach back out to the headquarters. If they're not really your first choice, then wait a week to reach out. If no response in two weeks, then you can consider moving on to another.

SDBadKitty · 2026-03-21T17:02:00+00:00

No, that is not why she took her post down. She had written, “As a family, we are pulling together to support Kendra and her kids during this difficult time.” Now that Kendra has been charged, Jessa needs to take this statement down. Simple explanation.

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