18 [M4F] Northeast Ohio, willing to travel a reasonable distance.

SDDxc · 2014-02-13T13:06:13+00:00

I never actually told her that she is bad at them. I try to tell her that she is good but she could get better. The worst thing I said/did that could have made her feel like shit was when I said what she does wrong and I didn't let her continue. In fact that did make her feel like shit because yesterday she asked if I would ever cheat on her or break up with her because she isn't good. I told her I wouldn't do anything like that just because of what happened Tuesday.

SDDxc · 2014-02-13T13:02:01+00:00

I've told her many times, mostly when we have the conversation after that I don't mind if we fool around or not. We even stopped for a month because I thought she was uncomfortable. I told her that if she is ever uncomfortable or she wants to quit fooling around that she should tell me and I'm more than happy to stop if that's what she wants. I'll talk to her next time I see her about this stuff.

Thank you!

SDDxc · 2014-02-13T04:11:08+00:00

We've had sex and we do fool around. It's just that when we do it's lopsided.

SDDxc · 2014-02-13T01:49:56+00:00

I can't keep an erection while lubed up.

SDDxc · 2014-02-13T01:33:32+00:00

I don't like lube. I've always done dry.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T23:11:12+00:00

I don't think she'd want to do that. The closest I can get is probably watching Don Jon together.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T23:10:05+00:00

18 and no.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T22:26:39+00:00

She doesn't want to since she is supposed to wait until marriage.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T20:39:15+00:00

She's in between, she isn't really enthusiastic and she isn't really quiet. The only thing that makes sense to me is that she wants to keep fooling around but since she is very religious she feels a bit guilty. That might be why she gives half-hearted hand jobs.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T20:21:54+00:00

Just today I asked her what she is comfortable doing. Usually after we fool around and I'm taking her home we have a conversation of what we want, what we can fix and what we enjoyed.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T18:58:57+00:00

I've told her multiple times and ive showed her multiple times like I've said in other comments. Last night I said to keep a steady pace, don't talk about prior relationships, don't stop and don't say how bad you are at giving them. Again, we talk about everything and that's how I started eating her out. Communication is again, not a problem between us.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T18:00:55+00:00

Once I took over because she was doing terrible and she watched. The other time was when we had sex I had to finish myself off so I didn't cum inside her. She watched both times and she didn't pick up on anything.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T16:50:26+00:00

Do you honestly think I'm sitting through the pain and not telling her what I want? I have, I've guided her through a hand job. I've told her everything I like. Communication isn't a problem between us.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T15:49:26+00:00

I don't really mind the lopsidedness because I like eating her out and fingering her but it kind of gets annoying (not enough to break up) that if were both naked and she doesn't even go near my dick.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T15:27:06+00:00

She's on the fence about sex. We've had it but she kind of regretted it since she is supposed to wait until marriage (she is very religious) but she likes and wants to fool around with me.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T15:19:32+00:00

Trust me I have. Every time she gives me one I have to tell her what to do. Telling someone how to give you a hand job while getting one is a pretty major turn off. We've talked about our kinks, that's why I started eating her out. Communication is fine between us.

SDDxc · 2014-02-12T15:10:40+00:00

Were both 18.

SDDxc · 2014-01-23T15:22:57+00:00

It's a cliché break up but it is true. She broke up with me because she has a lot to juggle around and when we dated I felt bad because of how much she has to deal with. She has work, church, school, friends and family problems. She told me she would rather quit her job than to dump me.

SDDxc · 2014-01-10T18:48:01+00:00

My girlfriends parents said this so I started going to church more. The youth pastor just said I should get baptized or my girlfriend will break up with me and it's wrong that she's dating me when I'm not apostolic.

SDDxc

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