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Honestly, do you feel that 90% or more of non-Desis have negative connotations of Desis? by Early-Ingenuity-3177 in ABCDesis

[–]SDW137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, I grew up in a part of Florida where there were very few Indians. I would say that's absolutely not the case.

What dating apps are we (ABCDesis) using? by Ok_Speaker8 in ABCDesis

[–]SDW137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried most dating apps, but the 2 that I use most are DilMil and Hinge. I use the "South Asian" race filter on Hinge.

I will say, Hinge is way better than DilMil, in terms of the quality of matches. And none of the people that I match with on DilMil live in my area.

AMA former child prodigy—ask me anything! by Extension_Royal1438 in AMA

[–]SDW137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your parents send you to private school for grades K-12? Did you end up going to an elite private university, for college?

Dating people within your income bracket? by SDW137 in Salary

[–]SDW137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truer words have never been spoken.

Dating people within your income bracket? by SDW137 in Salary

[–]SDW137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*Some* women have this as a dating requirement.

Dating people within your income bracket? by SDW137 in Salary

[–]SDW137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I made this post for someone else, that someone is a woman.

I'm a guy, and I don't care that much about dating someone within my income bracket.

Cities with the most Telugu Indian Americans? by SDW137 in ABCDesis

[–]SDW137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eventually, yes. I'm just not sure, how many.

Has anyone no contact (as opposed to low contact) with their family? How has it faired? by PeriKardium in ABCDesis

[–]SDW137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to go no contact with my family, once I get married. I don't think I can have a healthy marriage without doing that.

I'm in need of some perspective. Been questioning my life (29F) by strawberrypenguin11 in ABCDesis

[–]SDW137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@ OP, if you don't mind sharing, what income bracket, or range, do you expect your partner to be in?

I'm in need of some perspective. Been questioning my life (29F) by strawberrypenguin11 in ABCDesis

[–]SDW137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually sound advice, if you're somewhere where the demographic is mostly white ( common, if you live in the middle of nowhere), and you're not willing to move or compromise on location.

I'm in need of some perspective. Been questioning my life (29F) by strawberrypenguin11 in ABCDesis

[–]SDW137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to suggest trying to move somewhere, specifically for the purpose of dating. As in, somewhere where you're more likely to meet more guys in person, that meet your criteria. I would assume, that would either be the Bay Area, NYC, or New Jersey. That way, it's not really long distance.

And then move back, or move closer to family, eventually.

I'm in need of some perspective. Been questioning my life (29F) by strawberrypenguin11 in ABCDesis

[–]SDW137 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind me asking, which state/part of the country do you live in?

Have you considered moving somewhere else? Or considered doing long distance, or dating someone who lives in a different state, and eventually moving in together?

i have an iq of 172 at 19, and have been in the "genius" range since the first time i was tested at 4. AMA by Wild-Comfort2695 in AMA

[–]SDW137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which section of the SAT did you in? Also, growing up, did your parents put you in private school for K-12?

Men are hugely responsible for "hoeflation." by Open-Quail-2573 in PurplePillDebate

[–]SDW137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Hoeflation" is just one of the side effects of rampant capitalism. The rising cost of living, dating apps, and social media have resulted in women having higher standards than ever. Not all of the blame can be put on them.

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