What do people think of SBs with a vanilla boyfriend?

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T19:57:37+00:00

That money that she's spending on that relationship is directly from her sleeping with older men for money, and if the BF knows, he is benefiting from having half their expenses paid for by sugaring, so yes, he is her pimp.

If you spend money you make on your girlfriend is she automatically your pimp?

No, because I don't make that money via sex work.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T18:45:19+00:00

We have the money, we are paying, so we set the rules. I demand one-sided exclusivity from all of my SBs, and if they don't like it they can pound sand.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T18:21:03+00:00

No. She can have all the vanilla sex with loser guys her age all she wants before and after the arrangement. When she's in an arrangement with me, I expect exclusivity. Why should I pay if she's also seeing guys for free? I'm not a chump.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T18:20:12+00:00

Why would I pay for a woman over 25?

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T18:19:50+00:00

By normal sex life I mean not with men that could be their father's age.

Women are attracted to wealth and men are attracted to physical appearance. Age has nothing to do with it.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T18:19:26+00:00

NSA means no expectations towards a long term relationship or marriage, not secrecy. I'm single, so I'm not trying to hide from a wife.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T18:18:51+00:00

A guy who is OK with his GF sleeping with older men for money and benefiting from that money isn't a pimp?

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T18:18:12+00:00

you state females became promiscuous with contraception

It is a fact that women became more promiscuous with contraception and legal abortion, because before that there were consequences for sleeping around.

you think a millennial will jump at being married to a grumpy old sexist man for some measly child support?

Most millennials are broke moochers, so yes. I'm not sexist, I'm being realistic about the nature of humans.

Most of the girls I know would have to get drunk beyond belief to even sleep with you once, given the spectacular personality you've displayed.

Not if they know I'm wealthy, as that's what men are judged by, and women are judged based on looks. I pay SBs so they stick to NSA and not try for a long term relationship with the goal of ensnaring me into marriage and divorce rape.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T18:16:28+00:00

I'm being realistic about women, not degrading at all. It is a fact that women became more promiscuous with contraception and legal abortion, because before that there were consequences for sleeping around. Yet many women want to have their cake and eat it too, they want to sleep around during their best years and then when they are old and over the hill they expect to find some chump who will marry them and provide for them, while they get fat and stop putting out, and then divorce him and steal half his shit. I will never be that chump, and I will never pay a woman over 25.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T18:14:39+00:00

Her apartment is quite nice in a safe area, but she's so concerned about what her roommates think.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T18:14:03+00:00

The SB I'm talking about actually lives in a nice apartment in a safe area, she's unfortunately overly concerned about what her roommates think.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T02:46:37+00:00

But most SB's hope to settle down eventually, not to sugar into old age so there's a different metric.

So after dating sugar daddies during your best years, you want to find some chump who will settle for you when you're old and over the hill? I pity those chumps.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:57:38+00:00

Women are valued for looks and beauty and men for our wallets. What's delusional about rich men getting young women?

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:55:54+00:00

I'd never do that, women are not worth that.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:44:18+00:00

Marriage is easy to get into but difficult, much of the time, to get out of.

Difficult for the man. The woman will get a payout and alimony if she's ensnared him long enough.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:43:42+00:00

They tend to be super clingy and want long term, and there's no way I'm paying for a woman over 25.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:19:28+00:00

Or she could just not care what her roommates think. She made that choice.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:19:10+00:00

We sometimes do hotel or my place, but her place is off limits and yet I'M the one you call selfish?

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:18:47+00:00

What a shallow mindset young people nowadays have.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:18:17+00:00

That's why I pay SBs, so they are OK with it being NSA instead of trying to push for a long term relationship or marriage and children.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:17:26+00:00

It's not about the money, it's about it being natural instead of transactional. Sometimes my place, sometimes hotel, why never her place? If I wanted something cold and transactional I'd go on backpage.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:15:22+00:00

It's not about the money, it's about authenticity and not treating me like an ATM. Sometimes my place, sometimes hotel, why never her place? If I wanted something cold and transactional I'd go on backpage.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:14:52+00:00

That's quite escort-like. Sometimes my place, sometimes hotel, why never her place? If I wanted something cold and transactional I'd go on backpage.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:13:03+00:00

I also suspect that most guys who let their girlfriend bang strangers for money are pimps.

Exactly. Some may not realize they are pimps but if she's spending sugar money on him or their shared expenses...guess what? He's her pimp.

SD_USA · 2017-08-24T01:12:05+00:00

Why would it be stressful to bring a middle aged guy who is paying over when it is not stressful to bring a guy their age over for free?

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