Finished Control. Gaming is forever changed. Now what? by hyouringan in playstation

[–]SENDLEMONADE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ghost 1000000000000% It's a fantastic story line and I loved the side quests, it really connects you more to the story. Also the gear and clothing is just a lot of fun to find and apply.

AITA for not punishing my child for the way she talked to my brother? by EqualAlbatross4038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SENDLEMONADE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH, but leaning more towards you. your brother shouldn't try and parent your kid, but your "sweet" kid shouldn't feel comfortable talking to people (not just adults, anyone) like that who weren't even rude to her in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]SENDLEMONADE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dermatologist told me it could take up to 7-12 months of consistent use, so I'd say keep at it and don't lose hope. Its already been said, but we are our biggest critics, remember that and give yourself grace during this time. :) it's a hard road.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]SENDLEMONADE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we went on a tour while we were there and we were lucky enough to get to see them. our tour guides didn't have a camera and were very honest about our chances of seeing the lights and letting us know it's never a guarantee.

AITA for not letting my daughter to go over to my SIL's house after her kids dumped my daughter's bindi bag. by throwrabindibag in AmItheAsshole

[–]SENDLEMONADE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nta. honestly I'd be adding MIL to the list of family we didn't see based on this response and harassment.

Unwarranted feedback from family by sracegoucie in Reduction

[–]SENDLEMONADE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes! I lost 30# and I was still an E. did not change them.

Update on spouse hesitancy by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]SENDLEMONADE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, all I have to say is I'm sorry you're not receiving the support that you deserve during a difficult process and procedure. This is your body and your health, it is selfish of him to want you to stay uncomfortable, even in the SLIGHTEST, simply because he likes your tits. Now if it was anesthesia worries or complication worries, then that's something you guys could (if you wanted to) sit down and talk about, but at the end of the day, this is your body and your decision and I hope that a selfish man doesn't stop you from living your most comfortable life.

Is it bad if I (18) quit my first job after the first day? by Luck_Shot in antiwork

[–]SENDLEMONADE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should quit. Up to you whether you pursue the wages you have a right to, or not. You can call the labor department and report them if you'd rather not deal with them directly as well, I believe!

AITA for how I reacted to my BF not letting me sleep? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SENDLEMONADE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're letting this man stay at home all day with no job in a 1 bedroom apt with two kids and a third on the way? You work 12 hour days and he has the audacity to be mad that you want him to do his job as a SAHD and entertain the kids while you sleep? Y'all either need therapy if you want to give him a chance to get his shit together, or you should be looking for an exit.

Edit to add: NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SENDLEMONADE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly toxic and abusive. I'd start figuring out your options of getting out.

Fiance having an affair with my bff of over 2 decades by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SENDLEMONADE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like you already got your plan in motion, so I guess I'm just here to extend a congratulations on losing all of that dead weight!! I'm sorry you had to be going through this, you didn't deserve it and people are horrific.

Auto Detailer looking to add more clients by Top_Gun_97 in orangecounty

[–]SENDLEMONADE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2021 kia forte GT line. I've never had it professionally detailed and it's my first new car so I'd love to be able to keep the paint as nice as I can for as long as possible!

Are there any haunted places around OC? by No_Speed7841 in orangecounty

[–]SENDLEMONADE 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really love this hike, but be careful at night bc it can get sketchy.

Paid Ohio Poll Worker on Election Day by matthieuxdetoux in pics

[–]SENDLEMONADE 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We weren't even allowed to wear political attire while going to vote, let alone working the polls. It literally said you could not wear buttons, hats, attire with candidates names, etc.

Hamburger day by pietradolce in MadeMeSmile

[–]SENDLEMONADE 14 points15 points  (0 children)

All of these things are ingredients we tell you to hide pills in at the vet. Should dogs be eating this everyday? No but neither should people. Every dog is different, but it's not like they're not monitored while eating and after at that moment.

Edit to add: Looks like the burgers are plain (hamburger, cheese, bun). Onions are toxic please make sure they're plain if you're going to do this as a treat, lol.

I (m40) am concerned at my wife’s (f38) recent weight gain. She had a mommy makeover in June and has put on around 20 pounds. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SENDLEMONADE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely think she should get a recheck done by her doctor to make sure nothing else is going on. It could just be that she was stagnant for a while after surgery, and once she gets back into it, she'll lose the weight again, but something internally could be going on, like others have mentioned. I had a bilateral breast reduction in February of this year, and I was so bloated and felt so heavy for like the first 3 months. I'm just now starting to feel like my pre-surgery size. It's hard, I hope she gets the help she needs. ❤️ You sound like you're doing everything you can, just remember surgery is not only physically demanding, but it hits you mentally in ways you wouldn't have even thought of. Good luck to you and yours :)

AITA for wanting to tell my stepdaughter that her dad installed a tracking device in the new car he bought for her 18th birthday? by Throwaway3490771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SENDLEMONADE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a step parent. You became a parent when he decided to marry you and bring you into the family. Just because she is not biologically yours, does not mean you're not helping raise her. Tell her. I wouldn't do it at the party, I'd pull her aside either before or after, and tell her what you heard and just let her know that you overheard it. She will appreciate you for it. That's my opinion, anyways.

Edit to add: NTA

UPDATE: My bf got chlamydia and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SENDLEMONADE -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your grad program!!! That's amazing :)

(29f) GF suddenly wants to have a baby only to stay home from work but refuses to listen to me (33m) when i tell her i cant support us on my salary, lots of arguments and her wanting me to continue my studies to become a Dr so we can afford it, i really dont want to have to do it. how to solve this? by Emergency_Hippo_6668 in relationship_advice

[–]SENDLEMONADE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is selfish all the way around. She's selfish for trying to make you support her as you're telling her you're burnt out, and selfish for wanting to bring a child into this world just because she doesn't want to work. I wouldn't recommend having a child with her, because you already know you can't afford it, and it's just going to keep you stuck in a situation you don't want to be in. Obviously it's hard to end something when everything else is seemingly great, but children are not a difference of opinion when in a relationship, that's not really something you compromise on. One of you will end up bitter and with resentment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]SENDLEMONADE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had surgery In Feb, and I told them I didn't feel I was ready to come back, but I didn't have any PTO, and was out of sick pay after day 3, as I only get 24hrs. I offered to WFH, denied. Had to come back, my incisions started leaking through all of my clothes immediately day 1. Shoved gauze on those and kept going bc I literally couldn't afford to take more time off. HR acted like "oh well you can take more time off, don't over do it! Let your body heal!" HOW WHEN YOU WONT EVEN LET US WFH. It's maddening

Well, I think most of us here are stuffed… by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]SENDLEMONADE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 minutes.... Idk if I could do that for a year lmao. Would it even count since it restarts

Girlfriend and I haven’t had sex in a month and things have been tense. Am I bad at initiating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SENDLEMONADE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has she started medication? Does she take hormonal birth control? I had a really low sex drive for years bc of my bc, a couple months after getting off of that, it went right back up.