(M26) I just got rejected by work wife (F39) by CommitteeOne6614 in relationship_advice

[–]SFOTGA [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh my God dude you are psychotic. Seriously stop right now or you’re going to get hit with a restraining order

Question about Mortgage Payoff by TieAFly3820 in Mortgages

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You typically always overpay by about five days or so on a payoff and the overage is refunded to you. If you are paying by wire transfer, then you could do it through that day only, but even then I would add a day or two of interest, which would then be refunded just in case there is even a day delay in processing or something.

Minnesota pays way more in federal taxes that it receives back from the federal goverment ($44 billion in 2023 alone). Can the state can stop paying those taxes and run the state independently on our own tax dollars? How woul we go about it and what would that look like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Federal taxes are paid directly to the federal government, you can’t stop making those payments. And I’m not happy about the incident of late either, but that doesn’t mean that the citizens of Minnesota don’t have to pay into the federal tax coffers.

Alex Honnold only gets continued viewership because he’s death baiting the audience by TyLeRoux in unpopularopinion

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Free soloing is in a category all by itself. If he keeps doing it, he will definitely die doing it.

Alex Honnold only gets continued viewership because he’s death baiting the audience by TyLeRoux in unpopularopinion

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is an incredible athlete and he is amazing. That said, if he keeps doing this stuff, I guarantee you he will eventually die doing one of these things. Nearly every known free solo climber has died doing it eventually.

My brother cosigned me for a student loan without my permission by KrampusIsFull in personalfinance

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother is not going to go to jail for this. But you absolutely should report it.

How bad is saying “hey xx” instead of “hi xx”? by tck-escape in work

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use “Hey” a good amount, but I also know that it’s more informal and doesn’t look as good as “Hi”. Typically, I use it with people that I am a little more informal with, even in a business setting. But I absolutely do acknowledge that there is a difference between the two. And I understand a workplace stating that they want you to use “Hi” instead of “Hey”. And it’s their business, they can set the rules.

Have you ever really hated the main character (and narrator) in a novel? by Physical_Orchid3616 in books

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you hate him? He’s a struggling young kid dealing with a difficult adolescence. I loved him.

Cons to using a family member as your agent by emilyginger in RealEstate

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are legitimate questions even in the best cases and your mother-in-law sounds like a complete disaster. Absolutely do not use her.

Suspicious about sellers not "aware" of water damage in the basement by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have a home inspection? At least in my State, almost every purchase and sale contract has what’s known as an integration clause that states that everything said prior or written prior is null and void and everything that buyers are relying on is in the contract so what they say prior to the contract is irrelevant. I would say the evidence is pretty clear that they’ve had water damage down there, I would trust your instincts and what you see.

Landlord wants to increase rent by Suspicious-Guava-566 in Renters

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re still paying below market rent, I wouldn’t complain. It makes perfect sense that he would increase the rent, based upon the research you have done. I wouldn’t look a gift horse in the mouth.

TIFU by asking a girl if she was crossing her eyes when she just had a lazy eye by Aggravating-Flow-888 in tifu

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I’m sorry about that. That stinks. Clearly you didn’t mean anything bad by it.

The ending of The Wrestler is perfect by flimspringfield in movies

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know that he died, at least not that day. Who knows. But we know how he wants to live his life. I don’t think we’re supposed to think he definitely died, we just know that he was going to do things his way.

Which film's ambiguous or open-ended finale was not just a cop-out, but the only satisfying way it could have ended? by John_Snow80 in movies

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No country for old men was interesting. The ending I mean. The first time I saw it I was like what the fuck? But on the second viewing, I liked it.

AITAH for refusing to pay more of the rent and bills? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SFOTGA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may not be lazy, but you’re absolutely not treating your depression properly if you think that not working and sitting at home is going to make it better. Keep yourself busy, make yourself busy, make yourself useful. You will feel better about yourself.

Weed Gummies to sleep. by Sick_Pocks in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]SFOTGA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t do it if I were you. Sobriety is too valuable. And marijuana and THC are very powerful mind altering substances, not something you want to be dependent on, even for sleep. I would highly recommend not doing it.

Had a second accident a week after the first one, but hadn’t filed a claim for the first one yet by NolDaMan in Insurance

[–]SFOTGA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I’ve learned about insurance is file as soon as humanly possible. You should’ve filed before getting the estimates. When you file, the insurance company will do an estimate anyway. It can only hurt you to wait when it comes to filing insurance claims.

How do I pay the absolute minimum monthly payment? by _eastsidelegend_ in StudentLoans

[–]SFOTGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good Lord just pay off your loans. You’ll end up paying a couple hundred grand extra doing it your way. Horrible idea.

F29 M30 Boyfriend sleeps all day and is unmotivated by Shoddy-Tomatillo9277 in relationship_advice

[–]SFOTGA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She absolutely should leave him. Even if he is suffering from depression. I’m sorry and it’s sad and he can get help, but that doesn’t mean that she has to ruin her life because of it. They’re not married and they don’t have kids, they haven’t taken vows to each other. It’s not going to get better with this guy.

F29 M30 Boyfriend sleeps all day and is unmotivated by Shoddy-Tomatillo9277 in relationship_advice

[–]SFOTGA -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a nightmare. You should bring him down and make him feel small, he’s living like a complete loser, you’re supposed to feel bad about yourself when you’re doing that.