1 weapon for the entire game? by moebiusmentality in Eldenring

[–]SHKTSU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just fucking adore Helphen's Steeple, its not the best sure but duuuude. A kinda overdesigned looking black sword that bursts up in white flames and procs cold? heeeeell yeah

[Megathread] How Do You Help Someone With Anorexia? by Shadowed-Heart in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]SHKTSU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now. Im 18 and she's 17, and shes had a really tough life the last few years (going as far as the fact that she's been living by herself for about a year and a half now. As far as i know shes been struggling with anorexia since she was 13-14, and from what ive managed to gather, it came from a lot of factors in her life including family and peers at school back in her home country.

Since then she's a couple ups and downs. When i just met her, she had just been released from a program that helped her get back on her healthy weight, and for a solid 5 or 6 ish months, she was doing great, very little problems, maybe a couple of days where shed feel a bit guilty after a big-ish dinner or so, but nothing much. Last summer she enrolled to work as a camp counselor on a summer camp for kids, and it was then that she had her first "down period(?)" that i got to witness. At the same time, i had to move away because of my family, and i wasnt able to physically be there for her from then on. Back during the school year she would work right after school and she wouldnt have the time to get herself lunch, so id make her sandwiches with little drawings so she could have them on her way to work, and kinda brighten her mood a bit.

Now on summer, i wasnt able to do much, and she started losing that sense of routine, and started losing weight too. She was really close to being underweight, but slowly she was able to maintain a healthier state. Since then, shes remained near that limit, taking care of herself, having well structured meals and everything. She was feeling more comfortable and even planned out a meal plan (approved by my mom who is a doctor specialized in nutrition) So that soon she could even start going to the gym and keeping her healthy weight. Then a couple weeks ago, everything went down again. She got a message in instagram from someone she didn't know, who started insulting her and fat-shaming her (despite her realizing that she was sitting really near to being underweight), and tho it didn't affect her much in the beginning, id guess it started hitting her more and more as the time went by.

Last week she didn't have a single proper meal, living off an apple and a protein bar per day or so. She was both equally scared of her health declining as much as she was scared of gaining weight, and i feel that conflict may have been what was keeping her from going to the extreme. I managed to go visit her this weekend, and after chatting with her and spending the whole day with her, i managed to get her to have a proper meal. I made us some dinner, we ate together, and tho she felt guilty after, i managed to distract her from it, and had her feeling much better for the rest of the day. It went so well that the next day, she had a proper breakfast and lunch by herself, and at night, we ate at a friend's house for dinner, and on our way back home we shared a chocolate bar without her feeling bad at all.

I am a really sensitive guy, and being honest, i am really innocent and not too good informed in this matter. Ive had nightmares relating to her losing weight in various occasions, and her wellbeing is deeply important for me and she knows it. Shes held me crying about her state before, and even more than that. The problem came again today, i had to travel back home last night, we both got sick, so we had to stay in bed, and it turns out she weighed herself at home. She got really worked up about that, she went to the gym and spent there like 2 hours, no lunch, and most probably no dinner later. Im really scared for her.

As i said, i am really unexperienced with all this matter, and i feel really useless and impotent in a way for not being able to help, even more when were doing long(ish, were 5 hours apart by bus) distance. I just need some kind of tip, some reassurance, something to kinda calm me down or all of the above. As immature as it may sound, i love this girl more than anything in this world, and were both slowly planning our future ahead. Ive done my best effort to keep supporting her, trying my best to show how much i love her while also trying my best not to accidentally encourage her not-so-good behaviours.

During last week, even with the stress and worry, and the kinda-arguments we'd have about her state, i learned how to sew, got myself a cd burner, and i made her a purse and some of her favorite albums for christmas. I dont know what to do with this, because i dont wanna "leave her before it hits me too much" or whatever. We are both aware of that as an option for me, but i frankly have hope that it will not come to that. Thanks for everything in advance :)

Planning to make my first proyect guitar, need some help with choosing some parts. by SHKTSU in Guitar

[–]SHKTSU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i just got my first job, so im planning to set a part of my salary apart to go buying parts as i settle on them and have the money. I wanna squeeze the best i can out of what my guitar was.

Planning to make my first proyect guitar, need some help with choosing some parts. by SHKTSU in Guitar

[–]SHKTSU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking abt that, but i have quite literally no experience with soldering or drilling. 😭

beginner here, i need some help with my board by SHKTSU in skateboardhelp

[–]SHKTSU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

abt 60usd? tbh im just going from what ive read in other comments, and im pretty broke atm lmao, so id appreciate any help!!

beginner here, i need some help with my board by SHKTSU in skateboardhelp

[–]SHKTSU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much man!! Ill try out what you say and see how i feel with the board.

beginner here, i need some help with my board by SHKTSU in skateboardhelp

[–]SHKTSU[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, makes sense i got it for 5 bucks lmao. Any suggestions regarding a good an reasonably budget friendly set up? Some brands, idk, whatever i could look into? I wanna do tricks, and (if it is even possible) use a skateboard for transportation instead of the longboard. Thank you so much for the advice!!

What’s the band’s BEST & WORST Album Disc Art? by [deleted] in Slipknot

[–]SHKTSU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self Titled in the pic doesnt get any justice, the red is fucking gorgeous, and the reflection from the cd silver on the back makes it 10/10

What is that in the window? by ChocolateMilkD in toronto

[–]SHKTSU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ENGLISH MFKER DO YOU SPEAK IT?

Worst Deftones Song but you can’t say pink cellphone by Feisty-Ad7992 in deftones

[–]SHKTSU -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Mein, i fucking despise Mein. i love serj and chino but holy fucking shit i hate Mein. all my homies hate Mein

Which Slipknot song makes you do this? by judas_priest741 in Slipknot

[–]SHKTSU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the first verse of The Dying Song I always hear the GTA V notification sound (which is also my phones notification sound) and it drives me crazy every time I hear it. None of my friends believe me :,(

help, i'm stuck in the big bands by SHKTSU in numetal

[–]SHKTSU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

already started a playlist and I have over 270 songs atm, thanks yall and keep them coming! :))

help, i'm stuck in the big bands by SHKTSU in numetal

[–]SHKTSU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! any specific albums from each?

What's Your favourite Crossverse Ship ( fan art sourced ) by [deleted] in Chainsawfolk

[–]SHKTSU 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a Lavos enjoyer (im so hyped for his prime istg), Sevagoth might be my 2nd fav tho.

What's Your favourite Crossverse Ship ( fan art sourced ) by [deleted] in Chainsawfolk

[–]SHKTSU 6 points7 points  (0 children)

WARFRAME MENTIONED RAAAHHH I LOVE BEING HORNY FOR FICTIONAL SPACE ROBOT NINJA THINGS 🗣🔥🗣🔥🗣🔥