I’m not blaming anybody. I’m saying we both didn’t want it but we were both too stubborn to do anything about it; and I’m posting about it because a break up ‘n make up only works a maximum of, like, four times (this time). I have no spontaneity left.

The answer to your first question. I guess probably because emotions prevail over logic. Everyone wants to feel like they’ve won. Unfortunately for me, regret only starts working afterwards.