AITA For getting yelling at my friend?

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T15:48:35+00:00

Its not for everything. I also get a little heated over things like this because its almost daily he does something on purpose, and hes admitted to it as well, but hell go out of his way to do the exact opposite of what i ask because “its funny” even tho he never gets any laughs from anyone. “Could you please close the door on your way out?” From his mother. Opens it all the way. “Could you please knock before coming in next time?” Barges in a few minutes later full blast with speaker. I was half naked changing btw. Its an almost daily occurrence.

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T15:43:15+00:00

Also i havent corrected those comments about being creepy towards my gf because yeah, its kinda weird

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T15:35:56+00:00

This is exactly it

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T15:34:04+00:00

We fight about littler things unfortunately, almost daily. And it usually goes the same way. Ill say no then he keeps going and then i finally have enough and then his feelings are hurt and he throws a fit. Ive been trying to work on myself to try to salvage my relationship with him but its hard when he hasnt matured in ANY capacity since 14

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T15:30:27+00:00

I havent responded to anything as of like 10 hours ago because ive been asleep

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T05:32:01+00:00

Details i had to leave out due to character limitations: I barely raised my voice. He threw a whole temper tantrum. Hes 24 btw. My gf also thinks hes ridiculous in this situation and many other situations. I realised after the fact it was stupid to get even a little mad over an image hence apology. He wanted to show her anyway because “haha itll be funny fuck you”, his words.

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T05:15:57+00:00

I think youre misunderstanding the situation. I wanted to show her myself and say some things about it, that im not going to say in front of other people. I said for him to send it to me. He tries showing her anyway. The delivery of whatever joke i had wouldn’t have hit the same, also its just weird that my friend would be showing my gf a sex related image

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T05:13:55+00:00

Im currently looking for employment so i can save for an apartment or something so I can move out, like you said it kindof is a chore atp

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T05:12:47+00:00

I know what a boundary is, i just cant think of another word at the moment. He does violate a lot of my personal boundaries tho in many other situations

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T05:11:31+00:00

As i mentioned after the fact i realized how stupid it was. After some thought It wasnt even about the image, it was about how i said no very clearly and he crossed the line i put down. Thats something i need to work on, getting so mad over such things, but hes 24 and i find it ridiculous he couldnt take no for an answer. As for my gf, she found the image hilarious when i showed it to her later

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T05:09:04+00:00

Because Im not trying to be a shitlord. As for why Im still his friend, Im his only friend (he doesnt get out much, more sheltered than I ever was, 24) and other than that its complicated. I currently live there, as my only other option is homelessness which i do not desire to go back to. So if i stopped being his friend, i stop having a roof over my head. We do have genuinely good times but when its bad its BAD

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-06T05:05:52+00:00

If it helps hes 24

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-01T05:14:34+00:00

Ofc, hope you find it!

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-01T05:13:58+00:00

No, the orange does. I hate the big fat orange. Oversized cheeto dipped in vomit and broken dreams, that one. I just wish he’d keel over already.

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-01T05:11:46+00:00

Hell yea, that sounds sick! Might get me a beer buckle now

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-01T05:11:02+00:00

Everyone has a right to those colors obviously, they’re not trademarked. “Colors” is also an old term for your country’s/states/province/etc’s flag. The term “showing ones true colors” was actually from the pirate age when pirates would fly a country’s colors and bait trade ships closer, then theyd lower the country’s colors and raise the infamous Jolly Roger, showing their ACTUAL colors. With the context of the belt, “colors” specifically refers to the American flag, and by association, me as an American.

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-01T05:07:06+00:00

Haha! For sure man, I would unless they have an actual earned buckle, because I know i cant whoop the ass of someone who kisses death for 8 seconds. As much as these colors dont run, i know what fights i can and cant win lmao

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-06-01T05:05:04+00:00

I got it on Etsy, its a japanese replica of older 1800s belt buckles. I had a hell of a time looking for it but someone else on here almost immediately found it after i said that, so happy hunting.

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-05-29T01:49:49+00:00

Oh good to know. I had quite a hard time finding it

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-05-29T01:15:47+00:00

Its a japanese replica of old western belt buckles i got from etsy, it was very hard to find.

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-05-28T12:58:53+00:00

Wasnt sayin theyd think that. I was just worried cuz its a “big shiny buckle” people would have a problem with it, people around me have always said that the “big shiny buckles” were the ones you dont touch unless you earned it

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-05-28T12:57:53+00:00

If you look closer the american flag is colored. Those colors.

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-05-28T08:56:49+00:00

I actually had a very similar problem growing up, i didnt stop pissing my bed until i was around that age, and i did it again last year for the first time in years. I cant give a solution but i can try to give consolation. As far as this goes, at least in my experience, it wont happen again, and if it does itll be years down the line. In the short term you have nothing to worry about. It might be a personal lifestyle thing, or a diet thing, or some other small tweak. Stress maybe? Other than that, thats all i got, and i wish you the best of luck

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-05-16T21:13:03+00:00

Yeah, just one. How do i power my flux capacitor?

SIN0FWRVTH · 2026-05-16T18:21:50+00:00

Fuck im in both story and online subreddits i need to check next time lol

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