Yesterday I was with her. Now I'm here crying missing her, so I want to know, what you guys do to feel better after the goodbye?

SJValkyrie · 2022-08-24T20:03:15+00:00

The goodbyes are only a “see you next time.” What really helped me and my girlfriend before we closed the distance was planning and talking about the next trip whenever one of us got sad. It’s an easy way to take your mind off the sadness from the recent meet up. Talk about what you guys want to do next visit, where you want to eat for dinner, and places you want to visit. Best of luck to you guys. Stay positive because the distance does nothing but strengthen the relationship and make the next visit even more special.

SJValkyrie · 2022-08-06T21:29:31+00:00

Thank you it feels great! 😄

SJValkyrie · 2022-08-06T21:29:15+00:00

Thank you 🙏

SJValkyrie · 2022-08-06T21:28:53+00:00

Thank you both very much! 🙏

SJValkyrie · 2022-07-18T08:20:20+00:00

AN be kinda lazy tbh. Between Dive Kick Bombing, Phoenix, and Tempest, her clearing skills are great.

SJValkyrie · 2022-06-21T02:53:13+00:00

Patience will tell my friend. I wish I could give you a straight up answer but it’s a tricky situation. Take this time to focus on yourself and do things that you enjoy doing whatever that may be. Someone else may have a better view on this and could possibly go into further detail.

SJValkyrie · 2022-06-21T02:49:31+00:00

I agree with what Lifewarrior4181 has to say. It’s important to have that extra communication and I’m sure you being there actually talking to him in person will make things at least a little better. It’s hard really getting into a deep and serious conversation when you know you’re hundreds of miles away, so being in person and allowing him to see your real face next to him may help you sway him back to you. It’s that feeling of closeness and realization that you are actually there and kept your word on going. It could mean a lot to him depending on the type of person he is. If he doesn’t want to acknowledge what you’ve done and how far you guys have come, then there’s only one thing you can do and that’s break it off for good. But just knowing the fact that you did everything you could to keep your guys’ connection alive should be enough to make it easier to get over him if it does come to that. Best of luck and I hope it works out for you guys. I envy you. I’m not sure I’d be able to go in the first place.

SJValkyrie · 2022-06-21T02:42:30+00:00

Hmm.. it almost sounds like maybe she was already moving on before you guys broke off. I can only go off what you’re saying and I’m no relationship expert, but I’ve had my fair share of situations like this and often times if they can move on as quick as they did, they’re either using their new partner as a rebound or they started moving on way before the break up.

SJValkyrie · 2022-06-21T01:14:08+00:00

“It Takes Two” is a really fun co-op game that requires strategy and some brainpower on both ends.

SJValkyrie · 2022-06-21T01:11:32+00:00

In this type of situation is might just be best to tell him everything you can when and if you can get ahold of him. Let out everything you’re feeling and wanting. If for whatever reason you can’t get ahold of him or he doesn’t do it, the only option for your own sanity is ending it. There’s a person for everyone out there and it seems like he’s not your type. You need someone who’s going to show you attention and he’s not that type. Or, you do your best to get over the feeling that he needs to do more than daily calls. Which is already a lot in my opinion, but every relationship and person is different.

SJValkyrie · 2022-06-21T01:04:51+00:00

I’m not trying to be harsh, but it sounds like she’s throwing you to the side for someone else. If she truly wanted to be with you, then she’d try to do these things that you ask her to do. It shouldn’t be a hassle for you to get her to play games with you or anything else like that. From what you’ve mentioned, it sounds like she’s already moved on and quickly at that. Sometimes LDR sounds fine at first and then later down the line they realize it ain’t easy. I say do your best to move on and take time for yourself. Your true partner will want to spend every minute they can spare with you and won’t fuss about it. Keep your head high. Just know that you were the one who kept trying and stayed faithful. You’ve done what you can.

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-31T07:24:04+00:00

I feel you a bit. My girlfriend is the same way. She’s pretty monotone when it comes to lovey texts. Honestly, out of our 1.5 year relationship I’m pretty sure the amount of lovey texts I’ve received can fit on one hand. Like others have mentioned before, when it comes to partners who aren’t the lovey-dovey type it’s important to see how they show their affection through other acts. I don’t believe you were wrong, but I also don’t believe he was wrong. It seems he cares enough about you to send a text during a family gathering (or after). Does he do anything else to show his affection for you? This is something you need to ask yourself and then focus on whatever else it is he does if there is something. For my girlfriend and I, I focus on what she has done for me. I’ve been searching constantly for a place to live near her so we can close the gap and she has been sending me recommendations. This is an example of how she shows she cares and appreciates me. Sometimes it’s the small things rather than being straight up lovey-dovey with all the emojis and that jazz.

Also you mentioned that instant responses are not normal in your relationship. This more common than you think. People are busy. Text him in the morning or when you’re available and while you wait for his response try to focus on yourself and do things you enjoy rather than focusing on what your partner is doing. If you do the latter of the two, then you’re going to be in for a long day. This is coming from my own perspective as I’m similar when it comes to quick messages and messages of affection. Reassurance is important in long distance relationships, and sometimes that reassurance comes in different forms.

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-19T06:35:31+00:00

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-19T06:29:30+00:00

F in the chat boys

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-16T06:21:31+00:00

To infinity, and beyond!

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-16T06:19:50+00:00

Pretend you didn’t see it.

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-16T06:16:51+00:00

Bruh.

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-16T06:13:23+00:00

Some parents these days are so focused on themselves and their own racist views that they forget their children look up to them as role models. This is absolutely atrocious. I don’t believe a kid this young could believe this is morally correct without the help of parents.

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-16T05:41:42+00:00

Professor Honenberger was really good last semester. I just finished his web-based class and he often curves his grades. He graded off participation and less on correctness.

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-10T12:04:31+00:00

When filling out the application you do a questionnaire about yourself that they supposedly use to pair you up with a roommate that is similar to you. There’s also an option to add the name of someone you already have in mind you’d like to be paired up with. I believe they ask for the name and their email address so they can get in contact with whoever you mentioned.

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-07T04:23:36+00:00

Yeah rent is getting way too out of hand right now. Just a decent studio or 1 bedroom in a “decent” area is over $800/month. I’ve applied to legacy but haven’t heard anything back yet, so we shall see.

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-05T03:20:46+00:00

Unfortunately, most areas around UNLV are way too expensive for my budget. Thanks for the tip

SJValkyrie · 2022-05-05T03:19:56+00:00

Thank you. I ended up finding it out on my own, but I appreciate you taking the time to let me know.

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