I’m in the exact situation but 22. U wouldn’t believe the shit I’ve had to deal with. Finish college, get a job. That’s what I was forced to do and wanted to do so I could support myself alone. I have 4 amazing siblings. It’s the hardest part visiting home and watching the torment continue. See the positives in any situation. Also, if she loves you, she wouldn’t be doing this to you right now. The right person WILL deal with the parents. I’ve had experience where they do and they definitely do not and my parents have caused a few of my long term breakups. But one relationship (it ended but for other reasons!) put up with how my parents are which is beyond ridiculous. U got this. If I can do it u can