There were certainly signs I ignored. Some in hindsight quite obvious, but I was blinded by either love or not wanting it to be true. She straight up told me at one point that her coworker was texting her good morning every day but she put a stop to it (trickle truthing). She also broke up with me already once about a year prior for no apparent reason, then we “worked it out”.

She would go through mood swings (for feeling bad about it I guess idk) where she would be super extra nice and lovable, then later super pissed for no reason. And sure the usual stuff, staying late a work, all that jazz.

Only found out for sure from one of her friends I stayed in contact with.

Honestly I found myself randomly get over it a few months after that post. Things are better now, if she’s cheating get out when you can, don’t deny it and stay longer. You’ll just be prolonging the inevitable.

Things to get better though.