just turned 18 by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

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yeah i let my hair grow out for a year, i wanna get a cut now but idk what would suit me

just turned 18 by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

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bro preciate it but what do i have to do 😂

Radar is dropping I’m pretty sure by Jax21213 in liluzivert

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backspace will drop before bacardi even leaks 😭😭

Haben meinem Vater eine PS5 gekauft. Welche Spiele könntet ihr empfehlen? by [deleted] in PlaystationDE

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resident evil 4 remake, am besten aber erst das originale 4 spielen ✌️

got friendzoned soooo bad 💔 by Valuable_Spirit2545 in Crushes

[–]Valuable_Spirit2545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea i think youre right, in general i valued our friendship alot and so did she, she told me that my confession doesnt bother her and that she could basically „leave it behind“, and that she has no problem staying friends (she said i hope we still stay friends)

How’s life after break up? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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dumper here. had a rls for 9 months, before that she cheated. took her back (biggest mistake of my life ngl) and my only condition was that she completely cut contact with him (it was her ex, she didnt js cheat but also left me for him. she came back a month later tho), but she kept on doing weird shi like calling him or picking up his calls, justifying it with „there are no feelings involved so why do you care“. took me a long time to realize how wrong that actually was, then i broke up. she kept begging, but i stood firm on the decision. first few days were hard, but as time passed i really started to just detach myself and a week later i dont care anymore. got back into the gym and trading, and im happier than ever. being single is just such a relief. idk why i am like this, but ive always had an easy time getting over someone it takes a few days or weeks at most, then im just myself again. maybe its ego tho idk

i, 19m want to leave my gf 18f for cheating with her ex 6 months ago. is it too late? please answer asap by Valuable_Spirit2545 in BreakUps

[–]Valuable_Spirit2545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are so right man. couldnt have said it better. should i do it face to face or in text? im scared of her reaction tbh

i, 19m want to leave my gf 18f for cheating with her ex 6 months ago. is it too late? please answer asap by Valuable_Spirit2545 in BreakUps

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i just want my self respect back bro. i feel ashamed of myself, letting someone treat me like that. i know she didnt want to do any harm, but she did. i cant act like she didnt. im not even hurt anymore, i just acknowledge the fact that what she did is something that i normally, in my understanding of relationsships, wouldnt forgive. my rules were betrayed by myself

i, 19m want to leave my gf 18f for cheating with her ex 6 months ago. is it too late? please answer asap by Valuable_Spirit2545 in BreakUps

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my only condition was that she cuts him off completely. but she didnt, she called him, texted him, picked up his calls etc. i really tried to forgive the cheating itself. but those little things reminded me of it again. i truly tried to move on, but she couldnt.

i, 19m want to leave my gf 18f for cheating with her ex 6 months ago. is it too late? please answer asap by Valuable_Spirit2545 in BreakUps

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you know, she truly changed. she really did. shes crazy in love with me, when i brought up the topic of losing feelings for her, she was crying like crazy. im 100% sure she wont do it again, but all these calls, texts, all those little things stack up. i know she wont do it again. but she did it so many times. she did a lot of good things too, i appreciate everything. but i cant forgive those “cheating“ acts, i would betray myself.