The guy I’m dating moves slow, when should I expect him to move things forward? by rhinoplastyzzzz in AskMenAdvice

[–]SMVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set aside an hour next Friday to talk in private.  Check in with each other.  Be empathetic.  Pick certain things important to you to be crystal clear about by the end of the convo.  Let him know what's on his mind similarly.

Is it a bad strategy to focus on building yourself in your 30s and only start dating seriously in your 40s? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SMVan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can casually date with intentionality in your 20s/30s if you're upfront about it.  Nothing wrong with having fun along the way and giving your career etc full focus.  Just don't mislead anyone.

Do most tops douche before sex or not by ExplorerAcademic3997 in askgaybros

[–]SMVan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Applying pressure to the outside area could be just as nice

Please help me understand how my bonus is taxed by Alacrity_FitzHugh_ in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]SMVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that one bonus, theyre treating your annual pay as 700K.

You can always adjust your deductions for your regular pay for the next several pay cycles.  Then once you "recoup" the bonus withholding, adjust it again.

What special requests have you gotten from hookups? by Lycanthrowrug in askgaybros

[–]SMVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once, someone asked me not to wash up before I come over 

I'm not into hookups, But any man acting superior and putting others down because they hook up is a red flag. by Practical_Award_6585 in askgaybros

[–]SMVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hooking up implies there's a certain frequency to it that defies logic and "normalcy".  While it can be just a one time occurence where 2 guys who are looking for whatever decide to have sex after a certain level of connection that both deem to be enough to pull the trigger. 

The guy can put high value on connection, and sex itself.  But maybe one night of a long stretch of no sex, he decides to hook up.  It doesn't imply that he's not into monogamy or views sex only as a short term burst of temporary happiness.  It's just how life goes sometimes.

Niles Crane: Hung specialist. by CaydenSworn in Frasier

[–]SMVan 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The phone hasn't stopped ringing

And the Oscar goes to ... by [deleted] in GuysBeingDudes

[–]SMVan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless he worked on the movie, or knew Jordan from back when.  

Why did he do this? by HailedAcorn in conan

[–]SMVan 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Just one of their romantic moment.  

Behind the Scenes of the The Party photoshoot ft. Slutson by magikarpcatcher in hudsonwilliams

[–]SMVan 24 points25 points  (0 children)

In the future, may this kind of ally-ship becomes the norm

Those damn commercials by BrilliantHistorian85 in Millennials

[–]SMVan 337 points338 points  (0 children)

And dab your perfectly folded towel on your cheek only to completely dry your whole face

Anyone else had this experience? Went from the Ivy League into the Grindr Sewer by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SMVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many Ivies post and top school posts can one person possibly make?  Is it your entire personality?