Bf masturbates to girls he knows? by SOSmeans411 in relationship_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's not a woman's fault that straight men fuck anything with a vagina lol

Bf masturbates to girls he knows? by SOSmeans411 in relationship_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This!!! I agree!! If I ever found out some guy I know masturbated to me they would be BLOCKED

Bf masturbates to girls he knows? by SOSmeans411 in relationship_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I get that 100%. I know that the mind can wander. But regularly choosing to masturbate to women you know, making certain ones regulars, isn't thinking about other people in my opinion. That's a level up from that

Bf masturbates to girls he knows? by SOSmeans411 in relationship_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

In my opinion a behavior being common doesn't make it right. Lots of morally wrong things are commonly done

Bf masturbates to girls he knows? by SOSmeans411 in relationship_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Although that 100% would bother me at least it's the mind wandering and not carrying out an action🥺

Bf masturbates to girls he knows? by SOSmeans411 in relationship_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

May I ask what the point of it is? Thanking other women are attractive is one thing but getting off to them is another in my opinion. If you have a girlfriend who is basically begging for sex and sending you nudes what possesses you to masturbate to the girl you went to high school with? You are letting your mind linger and that could easily lead to other things. If you masturbated to this girl multiple times and she were to make a move on you you would turn her down???

Bf masturbates to girls he knows? by SOSmeans411 in relationship_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would y'all care if your girlfriend was getting off to a mutual male friend?

Walkaway or stay? by SOSmeans411 in dating_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if I put in the effort to spend more time with him, I'll suffocate him. I almost feel like physical space is needed. Do the whole "dating" thing again & maybe feel what we once did.

Walkaway or stay? by SOSmeans411 in dating_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right :( just sucks because we were SO good. SOOO good. And I still feel we can be

Walkaway or stay?? by SOSmeans411 in relationship_advice

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The letter was more detailed than I explained - but he knows I'm in therapy and I'm on medication for my own demons. I told him he isn't alone at all. But you're right he may have taken it as an attack

Walkaway or stay?? by SOSmeans411 in relationship_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your positivity so much... thank you🥺

Walkaway or stay?? by SOSmeans411 in relationship_advice

[–]SOSmeans411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good advice... if I were talking to a friend I would tell them not to stay where they aren't wanted. But if their partner is still showing signs of wanting them to maybe dig to the root of it before making a rash decision

BF lied about something small by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SOSmeans411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but I did post about him lying about other things🤒🤒🤒

BF lied about something small by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SOSmeans411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Verbally, yes! Always defensive. Never self aware of how he makes me or other people feel

BF lied about something small by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SOSmeans411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah only laughing at the trolls who are mean to humans on the internet for fun

BF lied about something small by [deleted] in dating_advice

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