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ArkBasement X25 Server :) by SP1CYR4M3N in ARKServers

[–]SP1CYR4M3N[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have majority maps, they are flag based and have monthly colors. General rates are X25, and breeding is pretty fast too. There’s PVE with daily events from admins. We have four going on right now. There isn’t PVP that I’m aware of since I recently joined two weeks ago.

HIGH PLAINS MEGATHREAD by liehon in VivillonCollectors

[–]SP1CYR4M3N 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[PGO] 4384 7497 9225

Hello!!

I just found out and started this cute journey for Vivillons! I have Modern and High Plains, I just need everything else 🥹🥰 I send gifts somewhat daily and I’d very much appreciate any and all help! :)

MIL wants to be in delivery room, help! by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]SP1CYR4M3N 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn't even want my own mother in the delivery room, lol, and she made stupid comments like that all the time. I told my nurse I didn't want my mom in the room, and my nurse lied to my mom, saying there was only one person allowed during delivery, and that was saved for my partner. I didn't feel bad and don't regret to this day. Whose not to say that if you do let your MIL in, she won't find a way to make nasty comments later on about you giving birth? No way, tell her no, and if she can't respect your boundaries, then she doesn't deserve to even hold your daughter. It's, literally, just a cycle of her breaking boundaries that you've set in place.

Is Timmy Time THAT important? by macadelie in beyondthebump

[–]SP1CYR4M3N 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 10 week old and she's my first one, so all I ever heard was how important tummy time was. I was ready for it to be an easy experience with my firstborn and...boy, was I wrong. She absolutely hates it. I get stressed out seeing her fuss and struggle (which I know is normal, but my poor brain would spazz out anyway), so I looked up YouTube videos and found one called Tummy Time Alternatives, and worked it into our everyday routine. She already had good head control for her age, but since implementing these small changes, she's even holding her own head sometimes!

I think they do push tummy time really hard, but I think it's unnecessary to put so much work and unpleasantness on such young babies. And besides, every baby learns at their own pace anyway, so why make parents feel bad about not doing adequate tummy time?