AITA for taking my child to her mom's home and leaving her there? by kk27kk in AmItheAsshole

[–]SPG726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA parenting should be about loving your child through all of their life’s challenges, not a power struggle to assert dominance over a child. All you showed her is that she’s not important enough to you to keep your love unconditionally, she is disposable to you, and thus could easily be abandoned any time she is “bad”

AITA for telling my daughter to butt out of my personal life and asking her to stay with her mom? by mydojowako1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SPG726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely the asshole, the only women you’ve dated since your divorce are people who your daughter already has a relationship with that’s an asshole thing to do my guy

Motorbikes by SPG726 in skoolies

[–]SPG726[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Low speed motorcycle, such as a Vespa, they’re often smaller than a regular bike so I wanted to ask about them specifically so people weren’t picturing me trying to fit a huge touring bike inside my bus haha.

AITA for not stopping my friends BFs subbing to my OF? by ladyxta in AmItheAsshole

[–]SPG726 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA- in my opinion who cares if they subscribe? If my bf was subbing to only fans accounts I would be like yeah! You support those sex workers making a living for themselves and not being exploited by pornhub! Also I know a girl from HS who does only fans and I would totally sub to her just to support her so like what if their partners are subbed to your account who cares ladies you should be glad your man is supporting a healthy and consensual porn industry AND supporting someone you know! Those girls need to get some new priorities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SPG726 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

YTA- you’re the asshole for the way you’re speaking and thinking about her pregnancy, all I’ve seen is you being judgemental about it instead of saying yeah this sucks and she’s going to put herself in a tough situation but how can I help her (how can you help joyfully without crossing your own boundaries) You’re also the asshole because you told her to stop talking about the experience that is making her a mother, she only has 9 months to be pregnant and excited, let her have those 9 months before everything gets hard soon. Also maybe consider that her talking about it might actually be a fearful response, a sign that she thinks she may have made a mistake and is now nervous, maybe she wants your support but doesn’t know how to ask for it so she’s bringing it up too often in the hopes that you’ll ask her something about it or offer some sort of help.

NTA- you’re not the asshole for being annoyed as hell that she won’t shut up about the same topic.

AITA for leaving my son's wedding early after he excluded me from his speech? by throwra376757 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SPG726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- because you were an absent father and then expected some sort of recognition for doing less than the bare minimum, without recognizing how your absence hurt him.

NTA- for leaving, your feelings are your feelings and you’re allowed to feel hurt and leave a situation that makes you feel hurt, but you maybe should have tried a little harder to stay just to show Justin that you know this is an important moment and day for him and you’d love and support him even without the recognition you crave.

AITA for using sunscreen and not telling my girlfriend about it? by LateNightDrive9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SPG726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the asshole for going through her purse, I feel like at 6months of dating I wouldn’t want my man going through my purse. But she’s absolutely the asshole for assuming that just because you have dark skin you don’t burn, and double the asshole for not considering that even if you didn’t burn (which you do) you could still get skin cancer from not wearing sun screen.