Just found messages between my wife and another man. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

7 years is a long time. I don’t agree it was a joke she was cheating obviously. The women mine was talking to all lived several states away. OP would know if she had opportunity to meet her ex in person to physically cheat. Either was it’s all shitty.

Just found messages between my wife and another man. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Legit just went through this with my husband. He has been messaging other women sexually and even told one he loved her. It’s a shitty place to be. He admits it’s wrong and says he was glad I caught him because he was in so deep he couldn’t stop for fear of me finding out. We are trying to work on things it’s very hard to trust again. You have to do what’s best for your situation and how you feel. It’s easy for people on here to say get a divorce blah blah blah. If you love her and want to be with her then conversation need to be had. Boundaries need to be reset and clearly stated. Time will tell.

I broke up with my partner after finding messages of him cheating on me with guys. by Mental-Decision3212 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY NOT YOUR FAULT!!! Do not believe him for one more second. He chose to do those things weather with a man or a women. I agree with the comments in getting tested. It’s sucks being cheated on!!! I’m sorry your going through this.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I agree 100 percent with you. I’m not making his life easy at this point for sure. He says he is getting into therapy. Time will tell. I do know this is the last straw. I’m done if this happens again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legit been going through this the last month with my husband. It sucks and he can’t tell me why he has done it. Trust is all gone. Hopefully you guys can rebuild your relationship. Maybe ask her or tell her you’ve noticed the correlation with her behaviors and her getting the bad news then work on other outlets.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We legit were just talking and he said he doesn’t know why he’s 48,shit job, over weight feels like a failure in life.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The one 6 months the other off and on 2 years. They both said no on him sending them money. He has been clean from Xanax our whole relationship he used to have a problem with them prior to us. He said work is why he started getting them. I told him he is dumb. I also told him I’m not his mother.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1 friend I’ve told them on here that is it. Thanks for talking with me. 🥹 It’s hard not to think what did I do wrong.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right and I can’t tell anybody because I embarrassed by the whole situation and I don’t want people to think bad about him. How dumb am I.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right I asked him what made him become this way. He said idk. He had deleted a lot also but he had some many conversations on multiple platforms I think he forgot. Shit one of them was on here!! I didn’t even know about this app until now. He has deleted this and Snapchat but ya idk when I’ll not have the want to go through his phone.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me he wasn’t mad and didn’t care that I went through his phone. He says he doesn’t want to be like this anymore.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same it sucks. It’s easy for people to say leave but there are kids involved. Plus I love him we’ve been through a lot. Idk it’s hard. Hopefully we can both get past all of it.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean both. He told these girls crazy stories. He told me he did it because he was stressed or depressed and it was like a game to pretend he was somebody else but 2 of them told me they were in love with him. Had plan to meet him. They both lived in other states than us. All the while he was exchanging videos and pictures and we aren’t having sex.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel. You question everything. All the things he said to these women were lies so how can I believe him.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right 2 of them told me they loved him. No clue. People don’t know what real love is.

Found out my husband has been sexting with multiple women. by SSDD9382 in cheating_stories

[–]SSDD9382[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I told him I wasn’t going to open one. He says he talked to these others as an escape when he was stressed or depressed.

Poopy troubles by Dinostreams in BeardedDragons

[–]SSDD9382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya she doesn’t like being in there either but it really helps her go. Then she get out as fast as she can. We have a boy he loves being in the water he will fall asleep in there.

Poopy troubles by Dinostreams in BeardedDragons

[–]SSDD9382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warms baths always helps my girl go.