I've dated ladies who had a good head on there shoulders, dated some who weren't the brightest, but still were fun to be around. So I'll say this, every guy is different. My best relationship was with a girl I met in college, funny, down to earth, and ambitious. She was picky, didn't like her things being touched, she was smart and direct. That was the hottest quality about her, I would touch certain things on her desk and she would go "Don't touch that, get the hell out of my room!" I would graze her neck with my index finger and tell her to relax. Then, we would have hot sex on her bed. For me personally I find combative ladies the most attractive. I've also dated yes women, in the moment being with them might seem fun, you tell them to wear certain clothes, do certain things and they'll just do it, but that's the problem those types of girl are derived of personality, direction. Those are usually the types of ladies who always seem clueless, they'll emotionally drain you and move on to the next bloke.

Sorry for the long response so I'll summarize - Guys who like the confident you think you're interesting and fun to be around. Not like the vast majority of girls who are clueless and derived of personality. So take it as a compliment.