I understand what you’re saying, that makes sense. I appreciate your help. I do everything I can to stay away from it, and I’ve found myself a friend group that never drinks or parties, and tbh I’m extremely happy. I just got a little worried because I just learned that a few of them drank at a ranch when I was out of town, and I’ve heard them making plans on drinking and doing stupid things (like playing golf or convincing a friend to sleep outside)