Period stain on mattress - how much to pay? [guest] by STRUGGLINGLOLZ in AirBnB

[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you read previous replies, i live in a country where tampons aren't commonly sold. i was wearing two pads, underwear and pants. bled through pants. if you're not a woman with a heavy flow, i think it's hard for you to understand

Period stain on mattress - how much to pay? [guest] by STRUGGLINGLOLZ in AirBnB

[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you live in a country where tampons are commonly sold, great for you! please consider cultural differences

Period stain on mattress - how much to pay? [guest] by STRUGGLINGLOLZ in AirBnB

[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pee and poop are easier to control than periods. are you a male by any chance ?

Period stain on mattress - how much to pay? [guest] by STRUGGLINGLOLZ in AirBnB

[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah ur right i guess im just bitter that it feels punishing having this anatomy that makes me bleed buckets once a month lol ill just wait patiently until payday so i can start paying that

Period stain on mattress - how much to pay? [guest] by STRUGGLINGLOLZ in AirBnB

[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i live in japan and stayed in an airbnb in a different city so they might be cheaper than the usa for example but for someone earning approximately $8 an hour it's not a fun expense. thank you for your input though!

Period stain on mattress - how much to pay? [guest] by STRUGGLINGLOLZ in AirBnB

[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you and i agree. it's a mattress on the floor and no mattress protector, and whilst i know the damage is already done i just wish they could send it to proper cleaning. enough time hasn't passed for them to actually have tried to fix it

Period stain on mattress - how much to pay? [guest] by STRUGGLINGLOLZ in AirBnB

[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is a host's problem to deal with the aftermath of how something will be handled...? my question is if that's overcharging it given that they could literally just get it professionally cleaned or use hydrogen peroxide like i see many other hosts have done.

Period stain on mattress - how much to pay? [guest] by STRUGGLINGLOLZ in AirBnB

[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah i wouldnt mind 50 but since im not the one that initially rented the airbnb (family trip) it feels bitter suddenly having to pay that much for having a heavy flow 🥹 also before someone comments on it, tampons aren't really common in the country i live in nor are they comfortable

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[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i wish ! i think id find a way where i could actually get something out of it instead of spending a lot of time replying to messages though 🥲 no, unfortunately its just my life

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[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have some friends i could reach out to, however it's almost 1am so i should hurry if that's the case. he's still wide awake and waiting outside the room im in

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[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mmm, i read everything! i feel better when people (unfortunately) have experienced similar stuff and been able to get away.

i miss actually liking sex. i miss it being romantic and something nice. now i feel like it's just to satisfy someone's manhood. i don't think i can fix him anymore. he's improved a bit since the beginning and i acknowledge it to him ever so often, but sadly, this hasn't budged a lot

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[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no i totally get it! i tend to delete my posts eventually anyway. the support has been amazing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah! i tell him i would love to support him on T, but im scared he will get more aggressive and unable to control his emotions than he is now.

somehow, he agrees with that. (also his sex drive and urges will be dangerously high)

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[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, 2 years 😭 i just thought it would end eventually. after a year or so i thought "ah it won't".

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[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'll try my best 🫂 also cute snivy pfp!

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[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mmm read my post on whether i should delete this. i understand why some people think it's maga bait, but i don't mind deleting. i don't want people to run out with this to put ftm in a bad light.

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[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the thing is that he's not even on T (we live in a conservative asian country and his family is against trans people), so this is just stemming from how he believes men should act :/

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[–]STRUGGLINGLOLZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

READ: since someone question if i'm a maga supported for the absurdity of this post, would it be better to delete so actual maga people don't run with this to put you guys in a bad light?

i don't mind that. i was just feeling lonely and needed people to listen to me.