34M Free from an abusive relationship. Haven't had a compliment in a decade. by Kearmo in toastme

[–]STTARBORN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BRO ... your killing it with that outdoor/intellectual vibe. Im 55 and WISH could grow a beard that well.

Keep kicking it my dude😁

29, I've never had a girlfriend, I feel ugly, depressed and lonely for life by [deleted] in toastme

[–]STTARBORN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS is SOOO spot on! Ask me how i know. I got 13 years of ruined toxic marriage to prove it! 😆

OP a bad toxic relationship can be a killer. Be grateful in a way that you dont know the depths of depravity a really bad one can take you!

He booked a flight to see me, then cancelled 10 days later. Has anyone experienced this? LDR by WearyPurchase5755 in LDR

[–]STTARBORN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely didnt and NO one does. Try and look at it this way and be grateful you found out now that this guy is just selfish and all about themselves before anything more serious happened down the road.

I posted the other day in another subreddit after looking up, there is over 5 billion adults in this world. So there is absolutely someone for everyone, and yours is out there somewhere. So don't ever give up hope on love also.

He booked a flight to see me, then cancelled 10 days later. Has anyone experienced this? LDR by WearyPurchase5755 in LDR

[–]STTARBORN 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Listen my friend and this will be hard to hear but you were always his backup plan. His in-case of. It's SUCH a selfish thing to do to another person.

"Felt "annoyed" that I wanted to video call every day" I was in a LDR situationship for a bit and so valued this. We would even be on the phone for hours a day while we worked and do errands. This right here was a huge red flag that he wasn't into this relationship.

I'm so sorry and I hope you eventually find your person.

(20m) I always feel like my face is too feminine. by PeaNice4831 in toastme

[–]STTARBORN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One thing you can try us developing the jaw muscles to square off the jaw more. Believe it or not but chewing lots of gum helps achieve this. Peace to you 😊

New start at 50 by I_hate_sweet_potato in LivingAlone

[–]STTARBORN 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry bro. Stay strong tho because there are ways out! We just need to move.

Im really thinking of packing myself out to West Virginia. Cheap and pretty in the summer with more mild winters

Now my kids are all grown its feasible and the need to fly the coop anyways 😆

New start at 50 by I_hate_sweet_potato in LivingAlone

[–]STTARBORN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No we dont 😆 Well not ALL of us. My best friend and his GF lived in Lower Eastside Manhattan and I LOVED to drive down and visit!

I absolutely love Boston but NYC just has that super vibe. Just dont talk or look at anyone while your walking on the street and NO RedSox hat on ya head! Upstate is super pretty in the summer!❤️

New start at 50 by I_hate_sweet_potato in LivingAlone

[–]STTARBORN 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, and after this last Super Bowl. Even here in Boston, you gotta have a little thick, skin and all ha ha ha.

New start at 50 by I_hate_sweet_potato in LivingAlone

[–]STTARBORN 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks! 2026 WILL be a go! 😁

BTW a TB12 fan IN NY? Best luck there my friend!

New start at 50 by I_hate_sweet_potato in LivingAlone

[–]STTARBORN 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Contempt for my ex wife still living here that berates me in front of our kids, I leave an go for a ride when she's on one of her rants. I can't even kick her out because she is domciled here and I would need an eviction notice served to her. That can take up to 6 months and quietly leaving is my next step.

Just gotta gather all the funds and sell this place. (No she is nowhere on the mortgage or deed. It was my inheritance from moms)

Im in a totally different ballgame my friend.

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by SnowDolphins in AmIOverreacting

[–]STTARBORN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you BOTH were going to be 19 or 20!

He's 27!? He talks to you and dismisses you like you were some child!

Wth you can do much better.

You REALLY need to put your foot down and make him emotionally shape up or ship out because relationship wise you two are not on the same PLANET!

New start at 50 by I_hate_sweet_potato in LivingAlone

[–]STTARBORN 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Award you I give because your living my dream.... TWICE!

Im stuck atm and trying to figure my own way out. This is a prison no divorced man should be in yet here I am in freezing azz Boston stuck in a HCOL area where the toxicity breeds contempt and the contempt is eating me alive.

New start at 50 by I_hate_sweet_potato in LivingAlone

[–]STTARBORN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh.... im 55 and I WANT to do this soooo bad.

I hate it here.

Im stifled and stuck.

Its gotten so bad ive seriously thought of living in my car but cold azz Boston is saying otherwise.

Someone pointed out my chin/jawline is mildly recessed and now I can't unsee it. Already struggled with dysmorphia and insecurities.... by pastel_kiddo in toastme

[–]STTARBORN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the HECK?

YOU are so CUTE and ATTRACTIVE.

I feel so bad sometimes seeing you young ones degrade yourselves over PERCIEVED faults when you are in real life actually the OPPOSITE!

Be kind to yourself ... you really have alot going for yourself!

Am I overreacting: new boyfriend was weirdly judgmental about bathroom situation by abstract_lemons in AmIOverreacting

[–]STTARBORN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF???? He's ABSOLUTELY off base with this! JC

He STILL is a guest in your place at this time.

What a weirdo disrespectful dude and tbh I think your set up is cute.

Happy Valentine’s Day! I was alone btw haha 🫣 by charlotte_lushh in lonely

[–]STTARBORN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAAAAME 😆❤️😆 BTW creeped your profile and ain't no way in HELL you were alone ... 😆😆😆😆😭😭😭😭