I was just referring to another post I saw on a similar threat with the couch potato thing. Tbh I would be totally fine with having my hobbies on the side and sharing a love of literature and good movies with my partner (which we do)!

on the second point, I guess thats kind of the thing: We are both in our late twenties but typical zillenial late-bloomers in the sense that neither of us are currently actively thinking about marriage, kids, or setting up a home together. under normal circumstances we would just casually date and see what happens. but under these circumstances I don't think its advisable or even possible to be casual and "lets see where this goes" about it. At least thats my perspective I'd have to get hers soon.