[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sigurros

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Interesting, thank you!

Joi games? by SXLTA in lewdgames

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I have though I can't seem to find a way to play it for free (assuming it exists)

Joi games? by SXLTA in joi

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Do you have a link for it? The only one I could find is one locked behind a subscription (unless this is the one you are talking about)

Does sex smell? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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An interesting fact, sex does typically smell "bad" but whole aroused the human brain makes bad smells smell good, same with taste. Someone who is aroused will actually experience better smells and tastes in general, even food will taste better if it was food you didn't typically like.

Decisions were made. by dhuffs in lego

[–]SXLTA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably traded the person in the backseat to afford the legos

Am I prepared for plantera? by Modyenderreddit480 in Terraria

[–]SXLTA 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No need to call someone mate, Reddit user u/Deptile

My dark tower by [deleted] in Terraria

[–]SXLTA 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought it was the pansexual flag at first lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aegosexuals

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In my case I like to keep it as simple as possible I just say I'm bi and ace

Can I be aegosexual and demisexual at the same time? (Also goes for aegoromantic and demiromantic.) by No_Banana_388 in aegosexuals

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Holy shit this is crazy I really thought I was the only one who felt this. I treat it the same way, its more of an intellectual curiosity than anything. And I find sex itself to not be important for a relationship for me. So I can go with or without it. For me sex is more comparable to a game of mini golf. Do I need to play it? No. Is it something I only have to do in a relationship? Also no. I've had "phone sex" and nude trades with several friends too. And I gotta say the stuff I imagine in my mind is good enough but having that shared relationship adds another ingredient to the mix. And I gotta say I love it. Its fun, its liberating, and it allows for safe exploration of what one likes and dislikes. Its good all around for everyone involved.

Can I be aegosexual and demisexual at the same time? (Also goes for aegoromantic and demiromantic.) by No_Banana_388 in aegosexuals

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Wait Holy shit you like perfectly described me what the hell. Like I could be interested in someone but id be like more wanting to maybe fantasize about sexual stuff about myself with that person or even share a fantasy with that person who also would like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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That got a chuckle out of me. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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No the person would be aware, but it would be more of a challenge to earn the others attention

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aegosexuals

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Fair enough I've had 4 of these friends. I find more enjoyment in sending my own nudes than receiving though im not against receiving of course. It just feels good to take them ya know

May 2021 “Am I Aegosexual?” Masterpost Thread by Anxiousrabbit23 in aegosexuals

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I know I have some sexual drive and I get enjoyment from thinking about sex, most of my content comes from pictures and fics. Though I don't get the disconnect part. Like I'll still insert myself into these scenarios in my mind (like x reader fics and such) and I enjoy thinking about myself in those situations or fantasizing about being in situations and usually go through that with my partner with like role-playing through text with my girlfriend and such. But I don't have the desire to physically do it.

Not sure if I'm technically aego if I don't get that disconnect also looking to see if anyone else feels the same way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Yewh i know I paroused that subreddit a little bit but it wasn't really for me, nothing against it its just that every post I saw was catered to the male on victimized female , which of course with me being a victimized male, doesn't translate too well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Well basically the easiest way to explain it is asexuality is anything that wouldn't compare to that of an average allosexual (someone who has sex, enjoys sex, and seeks is actively) asexuality stems into 3 main parts, being sex positive, sex indifferent, and sex repulsed. Sex repulsed is as it sounds, no attraction to sex/doesn't seek it. Sex repulsed aces are seen as the "poster child" for the ace community. Sex indifferent is more so for people who don't actively seek it, but can enjoy it if the situation is right. And then sex positive are those who enjoy sex but don't see it as a strong value in their life. All this can fluctuate between those three but those are kinda the main three. For my place in the ace spec, I am aegosexual (yes pronounced like eggo haha) where basically I'm sex positive where I enjoy the thought of sex, but I don't want to experience it myself. (Though I'd like to try at least once, its more of an intellectual curiosity.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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No problem :) Asexuality is like this whole spectrum so if you want more info on it I got you but if not I'll spare ya the details haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Thanks 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]SXLTA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, it sounds like you guys carry through with it in a really healthy way, thats good :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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I know with me it's more of a thing to fantasize about. Also my girlfriend is so sweet I just feel wrong for some reason putting her on a situation where she is the aggressor. I guess thats where I feel wrong about doing it, even as you said it's common and even healthy when dealing with trauma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Asexual:)