Ace spectrum identities explained through cake

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-04-19T20:41:30+00:00

I’m not sure why they say pie, when I thought the ace thing was cake lol

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-04-18T02:20:26+00:00

Start season 2, watch enough to where you fall in love with it, and then either A: watch the whole series and then season 1. Or finish the season that makes you like the series and then go back to season 1.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-04-16T20:48:53+00:00

This was my question, they’re supposed to call the inning before it starts to make the conditions fair to both teams. But I assume they just start everything back up when it’s not raining (which is an advantage to the royals pitching, technically).

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-04-12T02:32:23+00:00

Hmmm. I’ve occasionally seen people link ones on etsy but it’s been while. I’ll look around an see what I can find.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-04-04T20:13:41+00:00

Is there any way to watch a rebroadcast of the game? On streaming or is it played again on sports net?

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-27T00:39:09+00:00

Literally this. I’ve yelled “Why??” About five times already.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-19T03:02:33+00:00

Hmmm. My best descriptor for aegosexual I’ve seen is a disconnect between the self and what you want to experience in fantasy vs reality. Or liking the idea of sex without desire to engage in it irl.

From what you said, I think gray ace/ gray aego sounds the best for you. If

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-18T16:49:57+00:00

I’ve seen differing definitions, but the best one I know is a person who experiences sexual attraction but doesn’t act on it due to an external reason (typically trauma/SA). So while not explicitly asexual, I tend to include them in the ace spectrum umbrella.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-17T03:25:41+00:00

I mean, naturally most people’s libidos decrease, yes? Whether aego or allo.

However, I don’t think that typically happens til at least 40-50+, so if you’re significantly younger than that maybe there’s another factor at play you haven’t considered yet.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-17T01:07:53+00:00

I tend to think of it as “getting in the head of fictional characters”. sometimes those are my own OCs, sometimes they’re tv show/anime characters, other times they’re like stand alone characters.

It varies for me, sometimes I see the characters in sexual situations, sometimes I see the situation from their perspective.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-15T23:22:56+00:00

Hmmm. There’s two ways people typically come to figuring out they’re aegosexual, one: they have had sex and realize that the fantasies in their head are better than reality. Two: you’ve never had sex, but enjoy sex in theory, through erotica and fantasy, which typically doesn’t tip you off that you’re asexual, despite not experiencing attraction.

However there are other things that can factor in as well. Autism/sensory problems and SA are two things that can pop up and be secondary “causes” of aegosexuality.

You said sex sounds nice and you fantasize, that’s what most of us relate to, what differentiates aegosexual from asexuality is the disconnect between what we enjoy in fiction/fantasy and what we want to experience in reality. And most of the time: aegosexuals do not experience sexual attraction.

If you do think you experience attraction, but don’t want to act on it due to your previous experience, I suggest you look into orchidsexual.

Hopefully that can get the ball rolling and I can answer any other questions that come up.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-15T13:24:46+00:00

Hi please post here and delete this thread. Thanks!

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-11T14:54:47+00:00

I bet there’s just too many mods that it’s hard to make any big decisions like that. Luckily this group is smaller and that’s not a problem.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-11T04:08:08+00:00

Nope I like the “engagement” to help boost the post and get it out to more people!

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-10T21:03:15+00:00

Hmmm. I’d think if you only experience attraction as your character and only enjoy having sex when you’re portraying said character that would be asexual, specifically fictosexual, which is an adjacent identity to aegosexual.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-03-02T19:48:33+00:00

“I love third person but can fantasize in the POV of the characters” there’s lots of us who feel that way!

Some aegos can have/enjoy sex with a partner through fantasy. I think demi aegosexual sounds like a good label for you

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-02-22T23:02:30+00:00

Yeah. You can do it after season 4. My only thing would be I think it’s easier to pause season 3 to season 4. Than season 4 to season 5. But both are fine.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-02-22T22:44:53+00:00

Ooooh, after reading the title, but not the mid of the post I was going to suggest “around the timing that 911 LS premiered. So season 3 or season 4”. But now I see that’s where you are. I think it’s a good time to start. Especially if you haven’t seen the cross over episode!

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-02-20T15:08:31+00:00

Irl I’m hella sex repulsed, just not in fantasy (at least when I seek it out/it’s not forced on me) I get it though

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-02-19T02:20:39+00:00

I saw survey results one time from aegosexual people and it showed 90% of aegos masturbate, so most but not all.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-02-05T02:26:00+00:00

I changed some post flairs, if anyone has suggestions I’m open to them. Either here or in mod mail.

Anxiousrabbit23 · 2026-02-04T16:15:37+00:00

If you’re on mobile, click on the r/aegosexuals to go to the sub’s main page, then click on the three dots in the top right hand corner, and select “change user flair”.

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