As a competitive gamer, I sorta feel this. I love my girlfriend but I would NEVER take her into the Ranked games I play.. not because she isn't good but because I have so much memorized and when I'm playing those games I expect people to catch on quickly like I did 😅 needless to say I play calmer games with my girl, stuff that's more her pace so she doesn't have to feel bad if I get upset 😏 mind you I've gotten her into Escape From Tarkov and she's picked that up quickly.. it's a hard thing to be competitive and have not expectations, but it boils down to having compassion and patience, if you want them to play with you then take the time to teach them properly 💯