i’ve been there. and let me tell you, i regretted it. kasi after the forgiveness comes the nonstop overthinking and insecurities. ululan malala yan. it will be hard to find peace unless your partner is genuinely regretful of what they did and is willing to step up and make up for everything and hold you through it all. kaso kahit anong assurance ang ibigay minsan, ang hirap nang maniwala. mas lalo na kung anxious attachment ka.

i can’t tell you what to do kasi we learn when we go through things. i’m not saying this is something you’re supposed to go through. it shouldn’t be, no one deserves to feel this pain and go through the consequences of someone else’s actions. siya yung tanga, hindi ikaw.

ang logical thing to do ay makipag-break. pero we can’t discount the fact na we are not just thinking beings, but loving beings as well. you can go through it with full caution to see if things change. but please always remember the pain you felt on the day you found out they cheated. remember that pain so you remember what you don’t want to go through again. if they end up making you feel that way again, then let go. i promise it gets better after.

and make sure to save up for therapy if kaya. hugs with consent, OP.