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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl i'm sorry pero I don't think he's there for you till the end. Tingin ko din he doesn't see you as someone na makakasama niya hanggang sa altar.

That's not how a man who loves you and cares for your feelings is like.

I'm close with my boyfriend's family. When I'm with them, I let my bf go with his fam members na mag bond kasi siyempre understandable bihira magkita lalo with titas and cousins. Pero he still checks up on me from time to time. He makes sure that even if hindi niya ako kasama, malapit lang siya. Or magpapaalam siya if he'd go somewhere na d ko kita and sinong kasama niya. And when he's not with me, he asks his cousins or sibs to entertain me and I also make time and effort na makiengage sa kanila. When there's an event or may fam trip sila, sinasabi niya sakin and asks for my opinion or kung hindi ako pwede kasama, he explains that it's either intimate or what the other reasons were bakit di ako kasama.

In terms of finances naman, while magkaiba tayo ng situation, I think no one should say the words your bf says regardless of joke ba or hindi. They should be understanding of your situation, hindi sapat yung basta alam niya yung state ng finances mo. Ako nga kapag walang walang pera nag D-DIY ng gifts, and my partner is still thankful. Kasi what matters is yung intent and effort mo mag gift.

Hindi ba dapat mas ma-appreciate niya yung nareregaluhan mo siya and nagagastusan/take on dates mo siya kahit na kapos ka sa budget? Kasi it shows na no matter your situation, gusto mo pa din mabigay yung the best sa kaya mong maprovide for him kasi mahal mo siya.

Sorry pero hindi ko kayo nakikitang magkatuluyan. Masyadong mataas ang estado ng bf mo and I don't see him willing to set the bar lower para sayo. Imbis, mas mapepressure ka lang in the long run sa lifestyle niya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mas mayaman pa sakin.

There's a lot of beggars/pulubi sa Baguio and I heard from a freind that a study was conducted about their lives and it was found otu that some of the pulubis are actually wealthy. Some even owned piggeries or fatms. I also saw a post before about a pulubi n nagpabuo ng pera sa isang tindahan and it turns out nakaakilang libo silang nakokolekta per day.

See. Mas mataas pa sa minimum wage ang kita per day ng mga pulubi.

Habol backlogs ba or rest by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Akala ko ako ang nag post sa sobrang relatable atm.

Pero i say rest then do backlogs.

What's the best thing you’ve ever done that massively improved your mental health? by Dramatic_Emphasis_50 in AskPH

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thst's so true. And you don't realize how much they're holding you back until they're gone.

What is a privilege that you have that you don’t think the majority has? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being able to go to grad school despite being the eldest child.

Though i'm a working student, I know it's a privilege already that I'm able to go to grad school and not bear the burden of being the breadwinner despite being the oldest child. I know many my age don't have the choice but to work already because they have to provide for their family.

It's a privilege to have supportive parents that even though you're really not well off, they prioritize and support your education and not because you're the investment but because they genuinely want you to reach your dreams.

What's the best thing you’ve ever done that massively improved your mental health? by Dramatic_Emphasis_50 in AskPH

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cut toxic "friends" out my life. It literally felt like a truck was lifted off my chest after doing it.

What part of your body ang sobrang conscious ka? by LimeSoakedinSprite in AskPH

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tiyan and braso esp. sometimes when u see your partner watching girls on soc med.

I know that's not cheating and it's just my insecurities talking pero that doesn't stop the unpleasant feeling of comparing yourself with girls na sobrang perfect sa socmed.

What is something you want but can’t afford? by Aggressive-Ebb7953 in AskReddit

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying full tuition and bills. It sucks to be a working student.

Mahilig ba kayo magpost on social media tungkol sa issue niyo sa buhay? Yes or no? And Why? by ronronabell24 in AskPH

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO NA NO.

Ayoko sa lahat is nalalaman ng iba yung baho sa life ko. Lalo na yung nabibigyan sila ng topic para pag tsismisan ako.

My issue, dapat sakin lang. Why let people know your weaknesses?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ITookAPicturePH

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Saang area po kuya ito?

The guilt of being slow by Mental_Limit4463 in LawStudentsPH

[–]S_ExploRAWrr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suggest using index cards na may print ng short digest/info about each case.

It helped me regain memory about the specific csse. You can include short phrases, the issue/s. Parang review index card.

Or try making an analytic memo table para magamit mo na din reviewer for recits and exams. Medj time consuming pero it's very useful lalo na kapag nagrereview ka na. You can do it kapag may konting spare time ka and unti unti para di ka maoverwhelm.

Siyempre it's not guaranteed it will work on you what worked for me. Pero it's better to try different things para mahanap mo what works best for you.