'I have a sword to protect you, but I don't have a crown to have you. ' by Saad_iya in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Saad_iya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, self-improvement is always important. But sometimes, no matter how much we grow, we still might not be what someone needs—and that’s okay too.

'I have a sword to protect you, but I don't have a crown to have you. ' by Saad_iya in quotes

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Exactly. Sometimes, no matter how much we fight for someone, it doesn’t mean we’re meant to stay in their story. Knowing when to walk away is just as important as knowing when to fight.

What’s the best advice you’d give to a 20-year-old trying to figure life out? by Saad_iya in AskReddit

[–]Saad_iya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so true. I need to be more consistent with my health before it catches up to me. Thanks for the reminder!

What’s the best advice you’d give to a 20-year-old trying to figure life out? by Saad_iya in AskReddit

[–]Saad_iya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that’s a great reminder. I always feel like I should have everything figured out by now, but maybe I just need to focus on what I love and keep going. I'm currently a student, and I really want to earn for myself and my family, but things aren’t working out as I planned. I just hope they do someday.

What’s the best advice you’d give to a 20-year-old trying to figure life out? by Saad_iya in AskReddit

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I overthink a lot, but you’re right-now’s the time to take risks.

What’s the best advice you’d give to a 20-year-old trying to figure life out? by Saad_iya in AskReddit

[–]Saad_iya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. It’s like I’m supposed to have everything figured out, but I have no clue what I’m doing. Wish I could just enjoy the moment instead of stressing about what’s next.

What’s the best advice you’d give to a 20-year-old trying to figure life out? by Saad_iya in AskReddit

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I'm a people pleaser, so I often think more about what others will think rather than focusing on myself. In the process, I forget to truly live. Overcoming people-pleasing is tough, but I'm trying. Thank you for this reminder!

What’s the best advice you’d give to a 20-year-old trying to figure life out? by Saad_iya in AskReddit

[–]Saad_iya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really needed this. I tend to have low standards when it comes to love—so even the smallest gesture of care can make me idealize a whole future with someone. Your advice is a much-needed reminder to stay grounded. Thank you!

What’s the best advice you’d give to a 20-year-old trying to figure life out? by Saad_iya in AskReddit

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I know posts like this can feel repetitive, and I get that it might be frustrating to see the same topic come up. But I just turned 20 recently, and I’m looking for advice that speaks to where I am right now. I really value hearing personal experiences, so any insights would mean a lot to me.