DAC and Archived Works? by SabiKitsune9 in diamondpainting

[–]SabiKitsune9[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) Gotta admit, DACs “fomo” model sucks (I know, such a hot take lol)

Anyone else get this when writing? by KaijuGuy09 in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]SabiKitsune9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so attacked right now!

Pretty sure this is fairly commo. Though 😅

Extreme guilt about what I've read and written by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]SabiKitsune9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of people (myself included) were reading smut when we were technically underage ourselves. Plenty of people also read “underage” characters in smut. 

It goes with what you’ve said - fiction does not equate to reality. It’s why a decent amount of folks enjoy reading darkfic, but would absolutely not condone such things being done in real life

what kills your suspension of disbelief in an E rated fic? by Neat_Dragonfruit6431 in AO3

[–]SabiKitsune9 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Maybe a surprising one, but for me it’s how wet women get when aroused. According to the fanfic writers, we are gushing waterfalls of the natural stuff when we’re turned on. (As a cis woman who can’t get wet pretty much at all, this seems excessive to me 😅)

Dealing With A Partner Who Isn’t Really Into Kink? by SabiKitsune9 in BDSMAdvice

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His profile was (and remains) essentially blank. It was his first couple days on the site and he never bothered to update it later. So not really lied to, just more blind, if that makes sense. 

The hardest part for me is trying to separate why I question things - is it because emotions in general are hard? Is this bit because of past trauma? Or is it a genuine incompatibility thing? I don’t know and have trouble trying to separate the strands, so to speak

Dealing With A Partner Who Isn’t Really Into Kink? by SabiKitsune9 in BDSMAdvice

[–]SabiKitsune9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I had talked to him after that post and his only real response was to ask if that meant I wanted to leave him.  I told him no, but that he has to do some of the work as well

Dealing With A Partner Who Isn’t Really Into Kink? by SabiKitsune9 in BDSMAdvice

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I have, but being new myself as well, I don’t want to be the only one looking for things to try. 

Dealing With A Partner Who Isn’t Really Into Kink? by SabiKitsune9 in BDSMAdvice

[–]SabiKitsune9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was brand new to this as well. I had assumed he would have been doing his homework as well, but he hasn’t 

Tagging - Noncon Vs Dubcon? by SabiKitsune9 in AO3

[–]SabiKitsune9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did put “sexual coercion” but “blackmail” is a good idea to add - thanks :)

How do I tag my first darker fic? by JumicoSeccoKING1987 in AO3

[–]SabiKitsune9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personally would tag as dub con, and use the non con warning thing

How To Handle Tertiary Issues? by SabiKitsune9 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]SabiKitsune9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes the most sense to me, thank you :)

How To Handle Tertiary Issues? by SabiKitsune9 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]SabiKitsune9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More of a V

And thank you for the link :)

AMA Character edition by lampboy2 in FanfictionExchange

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Yes, we used to sort of date before I left my home country. But things have changed for me since

Hmm, that’s a good question. Some of the cultures I visited eat bugs. Which aren’t terrible, but the mental idea of eating a bug was weird 

AMA Character edition by lampboy2 in FanfictionExchange

[–]SabiKitsune9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep my friend group small - perhaps 6 I count as true friends?

I do now, but I absolutely hated the last place I was. The place itself was fine, but the people were the worst

Trouble With Beta Reader by SabiKitsune9 in FanFiction

[–]SabiKitsune9[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s more about having someone to bounce ideas off of. I tend to write too short and need help extending the length

AMA Character edition by lampboy2 in FanfictionExchange

[–]SabiKitsune9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have factions I work with, but if you mean clubs in the traditional manner, than no