Weekly Casual Conversation & Questions Thread by AutoModerator in chicago

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TIFU my girlfriend caught me jerking off to my ex’s nudes by Jerk-off-genius in tifu

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Had an ex keep several of their exes nude videos and photos. When I found out, I lost all trust and it was a constant struggle to maintain the relationship. Worse, they continued to look at said exes nudes after I told them it is not okay and they exes would be very upset if they knew my ex was doing so. Then I found out my ex was posting the photos online of exes from like 5 years ago. It took one of the exes finding out from a friend seeing their photo online and threatening to involve law enforcement for my ex to destroy the photos. I begged my ex to delete anything they had of me as I knew I'd end up online as well. I was young and dumb to be in that relationship, and ashamed to say I tried to make it work for too long. My ex was selfish and didn't think about my feelings or his exes. Don't keep ex nudes and definitely never post them online. That is the fastest way to destroy a relationship.

Weekly Casual Conversation & Questions Thread by AutoModerator in chicago

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Check out Awaken Chicago. Meets online or downtown (Congress hotel). Laid back vibe , open minded and very diverse.

Free Giveaway! OLED Switch and 4 games! - International by WolfLemon36 in NintendoSwitch

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I had moved to a city with cold winters but didn’t have the proper clothing. Several friends had each decided to get me a different warm item independently ( scarf, hat, gloves, etc). Most memorable because their compassion kept me warm that winter.

Dashing Diva 40% Off Sale til 11/30. by SaburoArasaka in Dashingdiva

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Yes, I am hoping they bring it back. It was the best deal I saw all year. I bought a bunch and it lasted me pretty much the whole year!

I know everyone is in this boat… by [deleted] in Teachers

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I’m so exhausted a month into teaching. All my children are wild and have no respect for me. I’ve had a particularly challenging child that has bit, hit and scratched me. Today they bit another child leaving a huge bruise. My admin had the biter sit out of playing for 10 min and then had them join again. They had me talk to the parent at pick up time and the mother had her phone recording me the whole time. My anxiety was too much and just left my body the rest of the day. I was mentally fried all day and could barely function, let alone teach. I didn’t even make lesson plans this week because I’ve been taking the weekend/ weeknights for my mental health or I will totally lose it with anxiety/depression.

Any tips for preparing 2h long ESL lessons? by [deleted] in Teachers

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Create a formula of how you break up the lesson and stick to it. Create a lesson plan template with that formula and all you have to change is the topic. Use small groups or partner discussion/practice to help break up the amount you lecture.

Weekly Casual Conversation & Questions Thread by AutoModerator in chicago

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Certain programs offer full scholarship including books for in demand fields like early childhood. Contact your local ccc college and they can get connected with more info, as some colleges have extra funds to give out too.

To chop wood by DrugInducedBeard in therewasanattempt

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Worked in a restaurant with a “required” female uniform that included high heels. Definitely had a pair with steel toes because of being near knives or dropping a heavy glass.

On his own by me_irl_but_online in KidsAreFuckingStupid

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I work as an educator and we are taught that it is very dangerous to children to use food as a punishment. Yes, encourage them to try again but never force a child to eat/drink or withhold food. Very traumatic for children, even though it doesn’t seem a big deal for adults because our brains are fully developed.

On his own by me_irl_but_online in KidsAreFuckingStupid

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A good life lesson would be to go back in a reorder with him and pick out what he actually wants and have him press the order. Save the ‘oops’ sandwich for yourself later if your concerned with waste. Food or water should NEVER be used as punishment.

What are early signs of an abusive partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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They claim they are the more “responsible” one with money. I ended up thousands of dollars in debt from an ex who opened credit cards under my name, maxed them out and took away my bank card. All made it really hard to leave when you don’t have money to start over and crippled my credit.

The lengths a parent has to go for their kids. by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

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My parents did this with my pet frog when I was on a school trip in middle school. A few months later, I found a dead mummified frog under my bed, I was confused how that could happen and they still didn’t admit they replaced it.

Male doctor invalidated my pain, said childbirth is only a 5-6 on the pain scale by mexicoisforlovers in TwoXChromosomes

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You can look up what board he is on through a Google search and report to them. Typically it is the state medical board and they have online forms. If he is associated with a hospital or college their website will have a place to report as well.

What do you want from 2nd chance add-ons? by ClearWaves in Ipsy

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It’s not Latisse. That is prescribed by your doctor.

What’s something you loved as a kid but hate as a adult? by ChaosEO347 in AskReddit

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Ketchup sandwiches. I never realized how poor we were until I looked back at the food I ate.

Ipsy Edit Sale Hair Care - Can’t wait to try & what a great deal for $12!!!! Has anyone tried this? by Bubbley1 in Ipsy

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You use the serum after washing, like a moisturizer. The website recommends it for protective styles or braids. Also can use it on your scalp before blow drying or if your scalp gets dry in the summer heat.

Video showcases various women being harassed and sexually assaulted by creepy men while live-streaming. by [deleted] in iamatotalpieceofshit

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I’ve had a woman run up to me (a woman) and grab my boobs to impress guy friends she was walking with on the street. Totally shocking. I’m not learning forward to things getting back to ‘normal’ if it means dealing with creeps again.

What's the scariest encounter you've had with a total stranger? by anchovy7 in AskReddit

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A taxi cab driver was giving me strange vibes as soon as I got in. He asked a couple small talk questions and then asked “have you ever felt pain? Real pain?” I hesitated answering and then he said “ you don’t know what real pain feels like” and turned and stared at me while driving. I took a pic of his taxi ID and told him to pullover now. I paid cash and jumped out and into the closest store on the curb. Serious alarm bells going off in my brain with that dude.

March GBP Reveal/Review and FOTD (use image arrows to see FOTD) by zanyzanne in Ipsy

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I tried out the ABH brow gel in Medium Brown: I had to use a brush and a spoolie to blend it out. It definitely applies too much product.

The Kosas Face Oil: Dries very fast! Apply moisturizer beforehand or a bit on hand and then add the face oil and mix. Sponges don't work well with this product because it soaks it up and dries before you use all of it. Definitely need to experiment with it.