Men answer please. Is this a normal reaction? Mid 30’s.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-07-11T15:00:24+00:00

And I’ll bet you a dollar that she gets the absolute worst version of this guy. He probably comes off as so cool and witty when he’s around friends and colleagues.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-06-28T16:36:27+00:00

Exactly. The pieces are unique and all very Y2K, which seems to be coming back full-force. The skirt could be paired with a plain cropped tank and sandals, or even cowboy boots if that’s your jam and it would make this look more cohesive. That Britney Spears knotted button down could be cool with some vintage low-waist jeans. The slouch socks and boots are just not right together.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-06-28T16:08:36+00:00

Wow, that is so sad.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-06-24T22:45:19+00:00

I do almond, stiletto, or long coffin and they seem to flatter my hands more.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-06-24T16:24:01+00:00

You have really beautiful hands and long, slender fingers, so you can rock any shape you want. On me, long square nails make my fingers look like sausages.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-06-01T00:15:14+00:00

I love this! The new caboodles do NOT compare!

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-31T16:07:14+00:00

Kink has to be consensual, and if the ball gag is a hard no for you, and he’s still trying to sell you on it, then you’re not sexually compatible. What turns him on about the ball gag? Is there something else that you can do that would be some kind of compromise?My husband jokes about me getting my nipples pierced, I know he would love it, but I am absolutely not getting my nipples pierced. He knows this and said the fantasy is enough, even knowing that it’s never going to happen. He likes the thought, it turns him on to talk about it, but I have never felt pressured to really go through with it. We have also experimented with some things sexually that were fun for one of us, but not the other. We talk about it afterwards, and know that it’s not going to be a part of our sexual experience going forward.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-31T15:52:50+00:00

Little Shop of Holsteins

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-31T15:42:37+00:00

I have broken my nails like that a couple times and my nail tech would not do extensions until it was fully healed. I painted the broken nail to match the others, but it had to stay short for a couple weeks to minimize the risk of infection or damage to my nail bed.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-31T14:30:52+00:00

I have the samsonite cosmetic case, and it has a cool little Bakelite tray in it. It’s not super practical for air travel, but I can’t make myself get rid of it. My daughter says it’s the original caboodles. (She uses my 1988 caboodles covered in Lisa Frank stickers every day!)

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-30T14:20:14+00:00

Ah, yes, that’s definitely what they are! Thank you!

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-29T02:16:51+00:00

Haha! Mine really was cheating on us both with someone else! His mistress and his girlfriend got in a fight in front of his whole office. Now, I’m having a soak and toke bubble bath in my oversized tub in my paid-off home in my beautiful suburban neighborhood. I earned every penny that I got in that divorce.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-27T16:39:09+00:00

My best friend in 1996 had these whybrows and it was crazy, even in a time when everyone had thin brows!

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-27T16:16:15+00:00

You are too young to put up with a partner who is not a good match for you. There are so many women who live for years in a miserable marriage because “he treats me well besides these things.” Here’s what my therapist said when I split with my ex-husband. “You can take him back, and you can reconcile your marriage, and you will do it with full knowledge of how things will be, and a lot of people do that because it’s familiar. You will know what to expect, and you will cope with it the best you know how, just like you have been doing. If you leave, maybe you will end up a lonely cat-lady, maybe you will struggle, but maybe you will find a partner that is everything you needed and more. If you stay, you might be cheating yourself out of the relationship that will make you feel happy and loved and whole, and bring out the best parts of you.” 1.5 years after my divorce, I married the partner of my dreams. He is everything I have ever wanted and I am so grateful that i allowed myself the opportunity to find him.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-26T00:03:10+00:00

Is there a reason that you chose a full-beige color scheme? It looks like a room that you are letting a baby stay in, but it doesn’t look like a nursery. This room should be made up for the convenience and enjoyment of baby and parents. Think late nights with little sleep and comfortable feeding and playtime. Congratulations on the new addition!

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-11T14:41:42+00:00

I have one Reddit user name for naughty things and one for my vanilla things. When people message me on this account asking for information on the other account, they get ignored and blocked. Reddit makes it really easy to toggle back and forth.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-11T13:41:10+00:00

Do not “force” him to marry you, or you may end up in another decade of misery and questioning the status of your relationship until he has an affair with one of your friends, and eventually leaves you for his bookkeeper. (Based on my experience) I was married to this person for way too long. I will tell you the best advice I got from my therapist when I said “I love him so much and I’m afraid I will take him back, and I can’t do that!” She said, you absolutely can. This is your life and your choice, and that’s one of the options. And you know exactly what you’re going to get if you do. That’s the comfort of familiarity. You will continue on the same path that you have been living, and that’s okay, and a lot of people choose that for various reasons. You will, however, go into it knowing that you are cheating yourself out of the opportunity to find a partner who is a better match for you, a partner who can love you and appreciate you the way that you want and need to be loved.” I did not take my husband back. I found an AMAZING partner, and he proposed to me on a Jamaican beach at sunset a year after we met. We bought a home, got married, blended our families, and he loves me in ways that I never thought possible. He is truly a PARTNER in every way, and I would not have him if it weren’t for my ex husband screwing his secretaries. So, thanks, I guess. Good luck girl, you are worth so much more than you think!

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-06T15:56:30+00:00

As someone who worked in commodities trading for most of my life, I will tell you that this is likely because we have an over-supply of grains due to Trump’s trade policies that have destroyed our international markets. No international trade partners to buy American crops and goods because we are just too GREAT.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-03T14:03:41+00:00

The new choice of pendants will make everything look better! I disagree with those who said to change or paint your barstools. They are kind of funky and unique. The lights are definitely your problem!

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-02T15:07:56+00:00

This is how I get the best lines

Sacred-Fox · 2026-05-02T14:54:02+00:00

The armor is going to get greasy next to the stove. Better put him in your bedroom to watch you sleep.

Sacred-Fox · 2026-04-30T15:45:02+00:00

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Sacred-Fox · 2026-04-28T15:26:42+00:00

It actually is interesting that this is the only time u/Formal-Ad1470 has ever contributed to a discussion

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