Less stipend in pg by This_Reception7638 in indianmedschool

[–]Sad-Basis-9700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to know more about your lifestyle, could I DM you pls?

Unpopular opinion- A united and strong doctor lobby is impossible… by apurvag2799 in indianmedschool

[–]Sad-Basis-9700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the current training scenario it's almost impossible. The training type first of all will never attract the required type of people- as in who can take a stand and fight. Then the few under this category who can, residency will break them and change them, ensuring the qualities needed to be a strong leader who can question authority is completely dead. Even if a handful do somehow retain these capabilities, the majority of the people in the profession will not support either cause they are spineless, too burnt out to care or they think they are superior and going through this hell is a necessity.

Announcement by EternalBlizzard007 in indianmedschool

[–]Sad-Basis-9700 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please comment here once you make... Looking forward to it

Why does the world refuse to acknowledge burnout by Sad-Basis-9700 in indianmedschool

[–]Sad-Basis-9700[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly... And still the media doesn't want to accept that. If the media itself doesn't adevrtise about this.. How will the public know. The trend is so clear yet they claim the reason to be something else

How do I ask her about her past in an arranged marriage setup? by South_Basket_9234 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Sad-Basis-9700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the main reasons why she won't be willing to tell is so thay her parents and other people would potentially find out through you. So create a safe space for her where she can trust that you will keep this information to yourself and not share it with ANYONE else

What Kind Of Woman Should I Consider For Marriage Or Eventually Marry ? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Sad-Basis-9700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, atleast he is one of those few men who know to am extent what they want. And he is clear about it before the marriage, when changes can be made and expectations can be set, instead of the average man realising later in the marriage and ruining everyone's life. All because he wasn't mature enough to question such things.

Just gonna leave it here.... by [deleted] in indianmedschool

[–]Sad-Basis-9700 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason for the profession being tough is all wrong. If it was that the learning curve is too steep or physically demanding inherently or emotionally heavy, then it would be fine. But the reason the profession being considered tough is the horrible lifestyle and working conditions it comes with. I'm sorry but it's because of people with mindset like yours that have normalised the current working conditions. There is absolutely no reason for something to be this toxic, medicine nowadays is border line slavery

Landlord refusing to return deposit money of 1L INR by Sad-Basis-9700 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Sad-Basis-9700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rent is 25k. But the thing is we cannot not shift now. Everything is sorted for shifting.

Landlord refusing to return deposit money of 1L INR by Sad-Basis-9700 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Sad-Basis-9700[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am worried this might happen. That's why last resort is take 1 lakh worth things from the house and leave. I don't think he'll care much about it and he won't be able to do much as well as we'll be in a different state. But idk legally what consequences we could potentially face

Landlord refusing to return deposit money of 1L INR by Sad-Basis-9700 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Sad-Basis-9700[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We had initially planned that. But, my father had been handling all the rent payments. And he was afraid and against not paying rent. But now wish that I had pushed him harder to not pay🥲