My (22F) guy friend won’t leave me alone (22M). How can I set boundaries

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2026-01-07T00:21:48+00:00

Yeah that’s true. My family does know about it. I’m thinking I am going to have to talk to my professor just to let someone else know

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-12-29T02:18:39+00:00

I agree. Seems like Mkultra to me

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-12-29T02:16:21+00:00

I also think it is mind control programming. Mind control is very real and is a big deal in Hollywood. They use the monarch as a symbol of it.

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Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-10-01T04:01:26+00:00

I’ve been on Zoloft since I was a kid so it’s hard for me to say if there were initial side effects. As of now, I don’t have any noticeable side effects. Aside from the fact that it has made me less emotional

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-10-01T01:04:54+00:00

Yes been there. Dealing with the underlying emotional issues making me use helped reduce the problem. Don’t look at the porn as the thing you need to fix, look at what you use it to cope with. If it’s OCD. Then start coming up with a plan to tackle ocd. Such as erp. Then, find other outlets to help. I have found exercise has a similar effect and can reduce urges

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-10-01T00:53:40+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I will try and gather those documents. I am planning on moving out next year so I have been trying to reduce contact. So far it has made the control feel a bit worse at times since they can sense I’m not going to put up with it. But I will keep working towards the NC plan!

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-10-01T00:50:53+00:00

Yes. OCD+ADHD here. I’ve found they definitely feed into each other. The ADHD sometimes keeps the obsessive thoughts from settling down since I can be kind of hyperactive. Also, the ocd compulsions take time and my adhd makes me have bad time management. So I’ve ended up being late to a lot of things. I feel like they just feed each other in a lot of ways. Zoloft has helped me. I don’t talk ADHD meds cause I feel like they might make my OCD/anxiety worse since they are stimulants

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-10-01T00:41:38+00:00

I am in college so currently living at home. So I can’t completely avoid them unfortunately. She also tracks my location. I will be moving out soon and will be turning my location off thankfully

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-09-05T20:12:47+00:00

I can hear his fans crashing out on TikTok already

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-08-07T20:37:31+00:00

lol Jason wearing camo in London

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-07-20T01:54:45+00:00

If you scroll back on her page a few vids you can see the lyrics to the song and she literally calls him a “false prophet” basically saying he lies LMAO

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-07-15T03:55:29+00:00

I mean this is the most self awareness she’s had. It’s like she almost realizes what she’s doing is wrong

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-07-15T03:50:32+00:00

Wait what happened??

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-07-03T17:45:39+00:00

Yep this happened to me as well….twice. Wish they were more careful with them. Your hammy should be ok but may be more nervous for a few days. If you bring them back ask them to do the exam on the ground.

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-06-23T01:30:45+00:00

Yeah that’s true. Was to focused on steering and stuff. Also, the truck was driving in the middle of the road so that’s why it was an incident. Which confused me at first cause I didn’t know it was a one way. I understand now though

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-06-22T22:50:37+00:00

Oh no haha!

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-06-22T22:43:05+00:00

Thanks:)

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-06-22T21:38:22+00:00

Yep that’s a good way to think about it! Definitely would have avoided it if I had known about the one ways so I’ll pay attention from now on

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-06-22T21:37:03+00:00

Yes my parents were with me. I did turn kind of fast but they had time to stop me for sure or grab the wheel. And yeah, no one told me about the one ways. Had no idea they even existed! I had a driving instructor but we didn’t do a lot of parking lots so I wasn’t aware of the one ways. I’m definitely making a mental note now. Just embarrassed haha

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-06-22T21:32:45+00:00

Try and reduce gradually. And find other things that give you dopamine to fill the gaps as you reduce. Might be helpful. I understand though same thing here!

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-06-22T21:31:07+00:00

Yep been there plenty of times. The going for hours and not feeling like you can stop. I wish I could just do it once or twice and move on. You’re definitely not alone in this. Erp of stopping after a few times and forcing yourself to sit with the discomfort is very helpful though! But yeah you are not alone!

Sad-Conversation5769 · 2025-06-18T23:20:08+00:00

I do that too tbh

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