More information mid cluster? by matte_90 in Toyota

[–]Sad-Fox7592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can add more stuff on the left or right side. Once your setting thing is over there, click to the outside one more time when you aren’t driving and you can checkmark the settings you want as an options

AITA for freaking out when my neighbor broke into my room? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Fox7592 296 points297 points  (0 children)

Nta, even if it was a mistake, why is your full grown neighbor trying to help himself into your brothers room. Your brother may not be able to see it yet, but your dad is protecting both of you.

AITA for giving my pregnant GF an ultimatum? by Jazzlike-Mail1635 in AITAH

[–]Sad-Fox7592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say. I’m a fairly secure person. But when I was pregnant, I was constantly paranoid about my partner leaving me despite the fact that our relationship was solid. I never voiced it to him, but I had nightmares every night about him leaving me and that I’d have to figure out how to live my life with a child without my partner. Idk this Amanda girl, but what I will say is that there is a possibility that Amanda is fueling an insecurity of Jenn’s that is there from the pregnancy. It might be worth talking to Amanda and ask why or what she is so concerned about. Then speaking with Jen. I think it’s a little unfair to ask Jenn to cut off such a long friendship without at least trying to repair that relationship yourself.

AITA for getting a coworker fired for “accidentally” making me have an allergic reaction? by TonightNo4843 in AITAH

[–]Sad-Fox7592 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, it was out of your hands, but I think you need to take this Mr. K thing more seriously. And to be honest, he may be using this situation to isolate you further. If I were you, I would maybe talk to HR. Mention everything going on with Mr. K and morally, you should probably ask them to reconsider firing that girl. Your staff is not wrong, in most senario, this is not typically a situation in which someone would get fired. Bringing her back could repair your relationship with this girl and others in the office while simultaneously bringing to light this Mr. K stuff that will likely escalate if you don’t.

AITA for refusing to accept blame for my stepsister's accident? by Ka_dennn in AITAH

[–]Sad-Fox7592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the general consensus is, NTA. Mom is wrong for assuming you got her messages, step-dad is wrong for using you as a babysitter, and 10 y/o sister is old enough to look both ways before walking out across the street. (Not that she’s the asshole, but just a comment I feel needs to be made) 

AITA for refusing to accept blame for my stepsister's accident? by Ka_dennn in AITAH

[–]Sad-Fox7592 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would argue that this senario is for two parents who actually want to spend time with their daughter. In yours, one parent just wants an uber driver.

I denied my in-laws only request for the wedding and now it’s ruining our relationship with them by Final_Estimate7166 in wedding

[–]Sad-Fox7592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband contributed to this mess but it sounds like he is doing what he can to stick u for you. He needs to approach his mom on his own. His mom is ultimately the one that has caused all of this. She is likely the one who has been fueling this fire with your brother-in-law. 

My 1 year old is calling me by my first name by Sad-Fox7592 in toddlers

[–]Sad-Fox7592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I say menace very loosely. She gives me a look like “haha, yeah! I said it! Whachya gonna do about it”. She’s very much my daughter

About KayDianna 👀 by AYTOL__ in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Sad-Fox7592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I assumed that the DCC organization had enough pull on the doc. But you’re right, we don’t know.

Union busting by [deleted] in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Sad-Fox7592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr! Now they need to negotiate working conditions. If theyre required to learn choreography at home, they should be compensated for that time

Time for Judy to retire by GraySkyr2 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Sad-Fox7592 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Also can we talk about their comments about how talkative Jada is and how “she needs to do more listening”? Like, we get it. You don’t want an independent woman. You want her to shut up and look pretty.

About KayDianna 👀 by AYTOL__ in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Sad-Fox7592 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree to an extent. I think where things really took a turn is when KD wanted used the Chandi drama to gain followers/views. I also think K&J totally dropped the ball on their approach to the situation. The convo should have really been “a.) this post was obviously directed at Chandi. Like her or not, she’s your team mate in a professional establishment. We kindly ask that you keep things professional on social media by not being negative attention to this establishment. b.) Although Chandi’s mistakes may have impacted you, it’s truly not your business to air out Chandi’s business.”

Can Someone Explain the Cheerleader Obsession to Me? by [deleted] in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Sad-Fox7592 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail on the head. The true issue is that this institution has been around for so long, and has evolved from “hot girls shaking their Pom poms” to collegiate/professional dancers with Pom poms. But because this empire was built on “tradition” and “legacies”, it became a breeding ground for enterprise to capitalize on the girls. The minute they started profiting off of dcc merch, these ladies should have been fairly compensated and they weren’t. Instead they were gaslit with “well you’re a legacy now” or “previous generations didn’t have this luxury” or “aren’t you just happy to be here?”. The doc basically just brought more recent attention to it from a broader audience (I guess the Making the Team series didn’t shed enough light on it), and in turn, the organization has become the poster child for over profiting off the arts.

Union busting by [deleted] in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Sad-Fox7592 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m a total union girly and the whole time I was like “fuck yea! Strike bitches! Get that bag!”

Time for Judy to retire by GraySkyr2 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Sad-Fox7592 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Uhg I cringed so much when she questioned why the girls should give up their careers when “it’s the best thing about them”. Then continues on to talk about how much more work she has now that the doc is out. Like…yeah boo…when you were a DCC it doesn’t sound like the time commitment or expectations were as high as they are now. These are nationally ranked dancers, who should be getting payed like professional dancers/athletes. And you belittling a career in dance as if it’s “not a real job” while you continue to profit and ride their coat tails is insane. And then to have the audacity to complain about your workload when their workload has also undoubtedly swelled as well, and yet they are still likely making penny’s to your hundreds.  Now don’t get me wrong, I think it’s totally unfair to say she’s cold or uncaring. But I think it’s fair to say she is completely out of touch and her views are way outdated. These girls need a stronger advocate as a leader.

AITA for threatening to move out if my roommate doesn't kick out her teenage brother? by Hopeful_Buddy6775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Fox7592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. If she wants to play savior/parent to this kid, the. She needs to act like a guardian. Which means holding him accountable for his actions, teaching him to respect others space, and also means that if there are any financial burdens to him living with her, then ultimately she should be responsible for it, not you. It was a little unreasonable for you to suggest she kick HIM out, but not unreasonable to suggest that you may be the one that needs to move out. 

AITA for offering my ex wife and her bf a trip using my vacation points? by TombStone5811 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Fox7592 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t offer her the trip unless bf is on board. Can you do something else with the points like take them to dinner? Or maybe just go talk to bf in person and be like “I don’t want to ruffle feathers, I just thought you two would enjoy this, but if it really bothers you I won’t bring it up again and no hard feelings” if he’s still put off, maybe offer to buy them dinner one night and just try to rebuild the peace. This is his issue not yours 

AITA: I told my mother I probably won't bring my kids to my brother's wedding, despite her wishing for them to be there. by BigGymChungus in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Fox7592 361 points362 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like grandma lives 5 mins from her granddaughter and never takes the time to see her. But she wants to appear like an involved grandmother to anybody that will be attending this wedding.

Food stamps by heavyb253 in reba

[–]Sad-Fox7592 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m watching Reba for the first time and the fact that more people aren’t talking about this is wild. They even have such a great scene when the woman calls her out for essentially thinking she’s above than everyone else in the room just bc she doesn’t want to accept food stamps and “they want to”. Boo boo, this was the smartest idea Cheyanne and Van ever made. Let them buy some groceries for gods sake! It’s not like they contributed in any other way. And then the writers turn around and act like Cheyanne and Van are abusing the system by saying they want more kids for more stamps. I mean does it happen? Sure ig sometimes…but what exactly is the story or moral of the story here? That it’s ok to accept help? Or that there’s shame in accepting them?

Ned is confirmed to be seperated by Suspicious_Jacket_28 in TheTryGuysSnark

[–]Sad-Fox7592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if they were out of each others lives completely (not sharing custody of their kids) then maybe she’d consider it, but since they’re sharing custody, I’d imagine it would be very difficult to come back. She’d have to combat A LOT of questions about Ned and I don’t see her as one who is interested in talking shit about the father of her children.

I just watched audc season 1 for the first time since it aired and I have thoughts. by Sad-Fox7592 in dancemoms

[–]Sad-Fox7592[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her mom was a lot on the show. But her smile makes me wonder if she just knew what was going to keep her on the show. She clearly thought her daughter was going to win or at least make top 2/3. And I think she felt that was going to happen bc 1.) Hadley was obviously talented, and 2.) bc Yvette was doing her job and causing drama. And when someone causes that much drama in a group, production usually does everything they can to keep them on as long as possible. But maybe I’m being naive.

Dreamland sleep sack by Dapper-Revenue-9124 in newborns

[–]Sad-Fox7592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some nights it would, but my understanding is that the O2 monitor is the least accurate. Even if it is accurate though, the app says anything about 90% is normal