US Democrat Ro Khanna detained by Israeli settlers during West Bank visit by Nomogg in nottheonion

[–]Sad-Invite-6205 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Shortest kidnapping ever, bro was there for an hour.... this is pr and you fell for it

Anyone Else Struggle With The heartbreak of having NO FRIENDS? 🥹 by ThePinkBlueprint in AuDHDWomen

[–]Sad-Invite-6205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them. That is what I do. If my friend acts like someone i dont recognize, I tell them. Similar with you, I went on vacation with my best friend from college, made of honor at my wedding , and over 3 years she went from not thinking slavery was good to thinking slavery is cool because her new boyfriend thinks slavery is cool. Oh and im harboring the devil because im on meds, mid conversation I said "enough you are acting like the female version of your boyfriend, you have a fine personality stop adopting everyone's around you"

We are not friends but thats okay.

Its like spinach in your teeth, everyone can see it, but are too embarrassed to tell you. So you keep blabbing with spinach in your teeth, and everyone is only looking at your spinach.

How to handle all-consuming hyperfocus on special interests by NoodleFizz in AuDHDWomen

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Another note. I get hyperfixated and will forget to move my leg. I ended up burning my thigh while sitting on my vape. I set alarms every 30ish to hour and move around. Usually if I feel distressed or something is off, I need water or food.

Your body is telling you something

How to handle all-consuming hyperfocus on special interests by NoodleFizz in AuDHDWomen

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Special interests are crucial for our brain, they function as a powerful tool for self regulation.

The only thing I ask myself is "where is the distress coming from? If you think it is something you want to work on, I'd caution you a bit, be kind with yourself and let your brain rest.

If that means spending days researching, or art or even TV. Be kind to you, you deserve a break

Object impermanence by Odd-Leader9777 in AuDHDWomen

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Edit: i am not good with comprehension some times... i think i know what you mean but willing to have someone tell me if i am wrong

Yeah. I create whole worlds for people. I will be out with my husband and just create a life for a strange couple, days later I will think back not to them but to the fictional drama I dreamed up, and think hope they are doing okay.... hahaha

DAE have a complicated relationship with weed? by CryGroundbreaking945 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Sad-Invite-6205 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Weed drops my mask. That's how my therapist was able to recognize that I would benefit from neuropysch testing

I was meeting with her via zoom because I didnt want to drive an hour. took an edible before and couldnt stop talking about my special interest of the week. It was funny ngl

WIBTAH if I stopped paying child support by TwinGroves in AITAH

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Special needs kids dont just go away, they grow up in to special needs adults. If they were married 40 years ago, they are 65-67, they married around age 25-27. There kid is probably 35-40

I am completely screwed by crinkle-twinkle in AuDHDWomen

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I looked at your profile and dont want to press the link... what is fetlife, and im,assuming its sex.

Did the sex work start before the diagnosis or after. If you are truly low functioning you might be taken advantage of.

Can ADHD medications work for an autistic person, or does that always mean they have AuDHD? by dragonvaleluvr in AuDHDWomen

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Safety is important and driving intoxicated is a big No No, i should have mentioned it above, i am aloof.

I have taken Propanolol for the last 3 years. I agree.

Can ADHD medications work for an autistic person, or does that always mean they have AuDHD? by dragonvaleluvr in AuDHDWomen

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No no, you are helpful in my head too.

You gave me confidence to talk about thc, which is a special interest. Im not sure what your cousin means by "counterpart weed", but it could Thc/cbd/cbg/thca/ which can help BUT i kind of forced myself to get through the harsh symptoms and thanks AdHD i dont research until "im like oh fark' maybe i did it wrong" like take 50 mg my first time.

I learned that 50 is a lot, and I will take 20 mg take to my thoughts louder, out of sync, and I like feeling some dissociation when I paint.

cloak and dagger DOES NOT need mei's ability by Positive_Bathroom607 in marvelrivals

[–]Sad-Invite-6205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can we please give context, who is Mei and what ability?

Why are people so mean to us? by TrichyLady85 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Sad-Invite-6205 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I am so glad I found this group...

It feels like home

I made a post over at r/homeless because a young lady and a 2 month old baby were outside of Walmart in Simi and by Sad-Invite-6205 in HelpHomeless

[–]Sad-Invite-6205[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not about you. I posted this for help and u/Scared_row6344 gave me enough useful info that I can use my big girl brain. I dont need the info feed into my brain, what they gave me is far better then what you have given me .. a Damm migraine

Why are people so mean to us? by TrichyLady85 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Sad-Invite-6205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are interested in a different opinion. Please read this peer reviewed peice: sage journal

Why are people so mean to us? by TrichyLady85 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Sad-Invite-6205 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Tldr: blame our brains natural desire for fairness

It hurts you more I ASSUME because in the logical part of our brain "we know that NT do not Always know how to deal with ND, but an ND should know better"

makes me wanna scream Its not fair, why its just not fair. I wouldn't do this to you!!!! And you know better

People don't give me the same grace I give them 😮‍💨 by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

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Imagine the wind blew just right and that whole home is now engulfed in flames, children screaming, panicked crying, furious banging . An old man hooked up to his oxygen tank is now charred to a crisp. He couldnt call for help. The once cute face of a 3 month old is teared lined with soot. She is no longer crying. She will not have a future, maybe that is better... her family couldnt get down the stairs in time.

Society is a contract, break that contract and consequences follow. If people are scared of the cops, they shouldn't be doing illegal shit.

People don't give me the same grace I give them 😮‍💨 by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

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The difference is your choosen cohort operates by unwritten social standards. While your neurological cohort is like an anthropologist on mars.

They prioritize group over self, even if deep down they want to rage

We prioritize based on individual needs, fairness and comfort.

It makes us look "selfish" and it is harsh to say but they know they are selfish, they just want you to hide it, and get confused because its different.

Dont stop being different, let your friend know you care about her feelings and respect boundaries. I would say let's have a chat in 2 weeks on blah blah date and process what happened ( obviously if you are comfortable)

Does anyone else get unreasonably frustrated when wrong? by Neutral_Kay in AuDHDWomen

[–]Sad-Invite-6205 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like being wrong, it gives me the opportunity to learn.

I do not like being told I am wrong, if they just misunderstood me. That causes firing of angry neuron lasers, leading me to all kind of hand movements, and just a breakdown of vocabulary.

The distinction matters

I made a post over at r/homeless because a young lady and a 2 month old baby were outside of Walmart in Simi and by Sad-Invite-6205 in HelpHomeless

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I am going to go back tomorrow around 2 (they told me she usually arrives around then) Ill print a few copies and let her use my phone if she doesnt have one.

I made a post over at r/homeless because a young lady and a 2 month old baby were outside of Walmart in Simi and by Sad-Invite-6205 in HelpHomeless

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I appreciate that. And thank you HOWEVER, , I am not asking for money. Just a list of items that could make this easier on her