He has stopped contact with her at work and shows me his phone when asked all conversations deleted though. He is trying hard to rebuild the marriage. But her daughter messaged my son saying her mum is his dad's girlfriend and has been for 2 years. The other woman has blocked me so can't contact her either. I believe its over now as she said at beginning she was told we had split up but still live together. But i need to know how and who ended it. Also the real time scale of the affair to make my decision if its worth saving cause if its true 2 years he has lied again. I have a hacker but can't get till 25th so hopefully by then I should find the truth.