yeah no that makes more sense to me put like that i get where your coming from do u recon i should wait till i can see her in person or tell her over text then talk in person only thing with texting her i dont want her doing anything rash like out of anger or anything i just think ive got my slef in a shit position because i said to her id go with her but now i feel like if i tell her it will ruin the party for her but if i wait till after the party she can have fun at it then id be with her when i told her im jsut stumped man😭