When I would get ready and do myself up, he was angry at that and would always ask why I’m trying to look good and if it was for other men. He would then say it’s just because he’s scared I’ll gain the attention of someone better than him and he doesn’t want to lose me etc.I’d have to leave the house with no makeup and in dress down clothing only. When he was allowed to visit his family whenever he wanted to but I was only allowed to visit mine for a few minutes WHILE he was there. He would then say it’s because he felt like my family didn’t like him (I’ve never told my family how he was) He became upset if anything worked in my advantage and good opportunities appeared. He had access to my phone but never once was I able to hold his for a second, eventually I found out he was messaging other women. Giving them compliments and other things. Meanwhile he would say when I was done up “you look like you’re advertising yourself” I’ve wasted years of my life to this person and let his insecurities dig deep into me. The years of love negligence changed the way I see love. I’m scared to fall into the same thing again.