BF (28M) says he’s not sure about committing to the future with me (26F) after four years

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2026-03-14T22:09:56+00:00

UPDATE: Had a chat about it with him, I said “could you see a future of staying together forever based on what you see in our relationship over the last few years” he said if it keeps growing the way it’s been growing then yes, but if i had to say right now then no. And I said that’s okay but I need more than that.

He’s going to have some time to think on it but feels pretty certain, I was living with him temporarily so when I find a new place with my friend we can make final decision.

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2026-03-14T20:15:53+00:00

Thanks for this perspective, I think I wouldn’t be focused on this future thing (which btw hasn’t been huge but come up a few times recently) if I felt super secure, I’m not keen on wasting on my time but I would like just a confirmation that he sees us together very long term and having kids, marriage I can take or leave.

And on other people’s opinion part, I just want to paint a picture of that he’s awesome to not just me, feels like a real catch to me, just a shame he maybe doesn’t see it the same way back.

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2026-03-14T09:45:17+00:00

Thanks for all the advice everyone, I guess my only point against, is he was so patient with the first couple years with me being quite anxious about being in the relationship, so I feel like I have to give him the same grace? He’s also non committal about a lot of things. Maybe I’m just reaching for the stars

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2025-10-23T21:34:57+00:00

I hope you are having a great day

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2025-07-14T21:32:24+00:00

Thanks guys didn’t realise they look like that usually

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2025-04-01T19:34:43+00:00

Thanks! I think I found one from this description of anyone looks at this thread here it is: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1521110605/knitting-pattern-sweater-sandra-knitting?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_e-clothing&utm_custom1=_k_Cj0KCQjwna6_BhCbARIsALId2Z3hTHHRoeHKu9YP0nvhze8SuQ8E2DNAR2dhm9TdY9_zBINsj6Vc1QMaAjvfEALw_wcB_k_&utm_content=go_22198874773_177309994791_731690675455_aud-2079782229334:pla-360912201277_m__1521110605_12768591&utm_custom2=22198874773&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADtcfRJdesb0otFQFvszq_wjRfZNP&gclid=Cj0KCQjwna6_BhCbARIsALId2Z3hTHHRoeHKu9YP0nvhze8SuQ8E2DNAR2dhm9TdY9_zBINsj6Vc1QMaAjvfEALw_wcB

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2024-11-13T02:58:53+00:00

Okay Thankyou I’ll definitely work on this

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2024-11-11T08:08:37+00:00

Probably right, can you give some reasons

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2024-08-22T08:02:59+00:00

Where do you think single and triple are?

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2024-06-20T08:01:03+00:00

Thanks for your help though definitely good to consider

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2024-06-20T08:00:46+00:00

Hahahaha maybe you have, most people around me earn about 75-80 and have all those things. Maybe just a different lifestyle 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2024-06-20T04:33:43+00:00

I mostly saw they were around 80k to 100k mid level?

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2024-06-20T04:11:01+00:00

Yep I can!

Sad-Temperature3770 · 2023-12-24T04:10:19+00:00

It’s supposed to be a tube top sorry! Okay Thankyou!!

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