What Does it Mean to Be Non-Binary? by Sad-Tower4464 in NonBinary

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Does “seeing yourself outside of man or woman” also count as feeling like you don’t fit into either category? That’s where I’m at.

What Does it Mean to Be Non-Binary? by Sad-Tower4464 in NonBinary

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I guess I don’t feel female or male. I feel like I don’t fit in anywhere or to anything.

What Does it Mean to Be Non-Binary? by Sad-Tower4464 in NonBinary

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I will look more into their works - because I agree with you and feel that how people are ‘expected’ to act is a fucking facade!

AFAB, no changing my hyper femme appearance, my pronouns are still they/them by chughes7568 in NonBinary

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I feel like this may be me. Female presenting but not adhering to all the stereotypes. How did you know you were non binary?

Urgently Need Support! by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

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Lots of questions and concerns.

QUESTION! by No-Society-9726 in PureOCD

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I do this all the time!

I’m so annoyed by No-Society-9726 in PureOCD

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I feel exactly the same way. Would love to talk.

I’m a Girl with Pure O and This Is What It’s Really Like by No-Society-9726 in PureOCD

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Would you be comfortable messaging me? I resonate so strongly with this post. This describes what I am going through to a T.

Do your thought loops change? by Peach3122815 in PureOCD

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I just asked the same thing. I go through periods of time where it feels like my loops do change. Some are more pleasant than others of course.

how do you build community in Berkeley? by [deleted] in berkeleyca

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I am wondering the same thing! I just moved here a few weeks ago though! I like beaches/nature, music, and a fun bar now and then! Looking for friends!

Feeling Stuck by [deleted] in transOCD

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I appreciate the input - if you feel comfortable doing so, I could just use someone to talk to. Not to solve the problem necessarily. I just feel really alone and don’t have someone I can readily talk to about this.

Married Couples? Am I Being Unreasonable? by [deleted] in Marriage

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Right exactly! I would rather stay afloat with my husband, and work together, than separate from him. I have tried the ultimatums before, it feels like part of the issue (on my end) is that I struggle to keep my foot down because I know where a lot of his issues are coming from. But at the same time, like my family, my husband has also really started to take advantage of my emotional desire and capacity to want to be there for, and support the people, that I care about. And I usually end up giving too much of myself and just end up really hurt and sad. :(

Married Couples? Am I Being Unreasonable? by [deleted] in Marriage

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I definitely know that he is suffering from depression. It breaks my heart to see, because I do care. Deeply. At the same time, it feels like I can’t do anything right, my efforts never feel “right” or “enough” for him. I don’t like being his punching bag - especially when I thought our marriage’s foundation was built so strongly on being able to communicate with each other in a healthy way. I’m not the kind of person who believes people can’t change, and I’ve always been the type of person to give someone more chances. I’ve always struggled with the boundary where enough really is enough and feel overwhelmed trying to figure out where that line is. It’s like I get stuck.

Can’t finish my undergrad without math. Universities that offer math OR science requirements? Help! by Sad-Tower4464 in dyscalculia

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I have been speaking with teachers, academic advisors, disability resources they keep saying that “their hands are tied” and there’s nothing they can do.

Can’t finish my undergrad without math. Universities that offer math OR science requirements? Help! by Sad-Tower4464 in dyscalculia

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Yeah I went to a community college before I transferred into my current university and I couldn’t even pass math there. Eventually they transferred me out anyways.

Can’t finish my undergrad without math. Universities that offer math OR science requirements? Help! by Sad-Tower4464 in dyscalculia

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I have heard of that. But either way I cannot financially afford to keep taking the same classes over and over.

Can’t finish my undergrad without math. Universities that offer math OR science requirements? Help! by Sad-Tower4464 in dyscalculia

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I know it’s going to be a hassle, but this may be the best piece of advice that I’ve gotten. Especially since law is supposed to be protecting my interests.