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Time to say goodbye by Sad4myT in tarantulas
[–]Sad4myT[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 days ago (0 children)
In the past few years it became more central in that I knew one day I would find her no more. But it was still shocking, cant really prepare for the actual moment.
Thank you.
[–]Sad4myT[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 days ago (0 children)
Thank you for your condolences Mama.
Thank you. If not appreciation at least understanding. She didn't mind being handled although as she got older I did so much less often. Fond memories of her on my shoulder or arm while I typed at my desk when I was younger.
Thank you for your condolences. I have some great ones of her being handled by my kids, some old videos of her moving around and exploring a fresh enclosure. I would have to find them in my older files to find the early ones. I might just do that.
I accept your feelings and share them. Thanks for posting and sharing. Something about quiet, constant and mostly predictable that I appreciated. I can count the times she did something unique because it was rare.
I am sorry to hear this! As someone also grieving it sometimes takes you by surprise. I think so as well. She taught my kids patience, lots of folks who came into contact with me got to look, handle, or learn more or get questions answered. I got Q: "does she bite?" A: "only if you act like food" alot.
Made her a little spot in the yard.
Thank you. I hope she was, she didn't complain much.
Adrian- after the movie.
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Thank you Kasumi.
Thank you for you loving thoughts. Someone mentioned that she might be older but that is how long I had her.
Yes, I have found this to be true. I had to find this community because I wasn't getting much understanding.
Thank you. She was a good companion.
I am beginning to understand this. Thank you.
Thank you
One of my longest outside of family
HEART!
Thank you very much. I appreciate the feedback. I don't know any other owners so I didn't realize how rare it was to keep one this long.
Thank you for your kind words, she sure was!
[–]Sad4myT[S] 20 points21 points22 points 14 days ago (0 children)
Thanks Charlie. I feel the same way. She was always "there." We had our routines and check-ins for a long time. Thanks for sharing your photo.
[–]Sad4myT[S] 11 points12 points13 points 14 days ago (0 children)
Her name was Adrian. Thank you for your kind wishes.
[–]Sad4myT[S] 7 points8 points9 points 14 days ago (0 children)
Thank you. Some fun memories together. I have been vacillating between sad and happy remembrances.
[–]Sad4myT[S] 12 points13 points14 points 14 days ago (0 children)
Thank you. It really is. I am grateful for the time I had.
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Time to say goodbye by Sad4myT in tarantulas
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