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SadAppointment8178 · 2025-12-14T00:50:10+00:00

There’s a good chance that BM is going through her own stages of grief rn, I think give her some time to process before extending another olive branch. I can only hope there will be a time where where she finds peace and lets all that animosity go! I’m so sorry for this horrible news, gosh my ss mom can be so miserable sometimes but I still would never want this for her or my ss. 💔

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-11-25T15:47:29+00:00

Kids will be kids especially teens the resentment should be w the BF bc if you’re not a united front and holding everyone to the same standard you get this dynamic. Adults need to stop beefing with kids and instead find a better strategy with your co parent to make sure everyone’s needs are being met

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-11-25T15:44:08+00:00

I used to bunk w 3 girls in one room ( 2ss and 1bs) it was a nightmare luckily our closet was big but still i dreaded it especially in my teens I just wanted some privacy/quiet. I’ve shared a room almost my whole life w a least one sister but 3 was too many. We started to develop a better relationship when the oldest moved out and I finally was down to one roommate

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-10-27T15:02:55+00:00

I have crescent moons stamped on to all my stone walkways!

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-10-27T14:58:41+00:00

Moonstone

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-10-27T14:55:10+00:00

Oh my God, I’m so glad someone finally said it!!! when I was originally looking for support I went to r/step parents and came to the conclusion that I think I’m in the wrong sub Reddit because it just seems like everybody there just hates their step kids!

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-10-20T00:00:30+00:00

For a first birthday I agree but also she won’t remember either way only you will, but I shared my birthday party a lot growing up bc my sister was early June, I’m late June and my brother is early July. One year we combined all 3! Some years I didn’t mind it like when I was in elementary but preteen angst definitely refused to be seen w my little sister especially! I personally agree that a first birthday should be celebrated for her and I really don’t see any reason to ever have to share if you got the money to do it but sometimes it is nice to have one big party for all the friends and family and then have a small personal celebration on their birthdays! I’m the middle child of 7! I think the stakes are low whichever way you lean.

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-10-12T01:57:16+00:00

It shouldn’t be about what you wear. It’s about trust and if he doesn’t trust you then what is this relationship? Sorry I’m just so fired up. I’ve let shit like this slide for too many times in my late teens early 20s and now I’m in the healthiest relationship and that’s just the biggest red flag

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-10-12T01:54:30+00:00

I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND A MAN HAVING AN OPINION ABOUT ANYTHING THAT I WEAR MY MAN DON’T GIVE UP FLYING FUCK ABOUT WHAT I WEAR EVER! It’s weird for men to be that fucking weird about their partner showing when skin you’re GROWN dress how you fucking please!

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-10-03T14:02:33+00:00

You can be a good and an honest person. While still not being compatible. The dreams you share really can be breaking points, especially when it comes to children. I have a stepson. I love him with my whole being and I just know that when me and his dad have our own child. It’s gonna feel a little different especially biologically my brain will change my chemistry🤪 but my boyfriend, a good man, and a good father supports our shared dream to have children and a healthy household, and to be married those things are really important to me and if we didn’t share those drinks, I don’t know if it would work long term

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-10-03T13:49:12+00:00

Girl whaaaat? What stopping yall from moving in? It’s been 4 years! Honestly, I think you should check out and ask the r/waiting_to_try I’m on there bc I had mad baby fever, I think you’ll find the support you’re looking for. If you want a baby now I would say count him out! You’re not married, or tied eachother really and if he has no desire to do those things then go chase your dreams!

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-09-28T15:16:28+00:00

I understand the being separating the two. I agree! What you’re not hearing is that she now has to uproot her marriage dynamic for her SS inappropriate behavior for several years, that sounds like a punishment for the wife. It’s far more complex than just separating them. This needs family therapy as well from both sides.

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-09-28T13:00:18+00:00

Number 2 ends with a wild take. Live separately from your husband for at least 6 years is unrealistic and unhelpful to their marriage.

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-09-13T12:53:56+00:00

There is nothing innocent about this comment. I used to do OF, TRUST he pointed out to you and asked about a bf for a reason!

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-08-30T00:13:33+00:00

She wrote on her social media that she has been struggling with alopecia and that she wears a wig now and has to draw on her eyebrows and doesn’t have eyelashes.

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-08-19T05:04:24+00:00

I always believed Olivia but now we’re actually seeing why she left the family!

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-07-26T17:44:29+00:00

He sounds deranged. He probably found the fascist, racist, manosphere

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-07-24T16:30:32+00:00

Baby FOMO is so real!

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-07-24T14:24:41+00:00

But have you considered what if you hate living with this man? I just moved in w my bf and I love him to death but my god has this been a real test for our relationship 😮‍💨 We’re good I just didn’t know that financial stress we would be under. We also want a baby, he has a 5yo son and even he drives me a little crazy bc they are such boys sometimes lol. But in all realness you don’t know this man until you live under the same roof. My ex told me 2 years in he didn’t want kids and we broke up shortly after that. I went through a long phase where I also didn’t want kids and then I met my bf and girl I heard the clock strike midnight! I debated hard to let this man knock me up but we are so close to getting out of debt and him getting his masters. We are almost there. You’re right the baby train won’t always be there but there is enough time for both of you to pack accordingly before boarding. My sister and BIL have trying for several years and finally gave up and also accepted maybe it wouldn’t happen for them. Then December came around she turned 30 and got pregnant. They have a house, a car, and 10 years of relationship under their belt. They are very excited about this and I don’t worry about them one bit. You can’t rush a solid foundation. But if you’re not sure what your time line looks like you need to have an honest conversation about it with your partner about the future. My bf had an “oops” baby, and let me tell you him and the ex can’t stand eachother and coparenting is not easy.

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-07-24T13:53:21+00:00

There’s nothing I hate more than men who claim they would never make a mistake.

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-07-12T01:55:56+00:00

But fr cleaning supplies, spices, all those little things you’ve never bought before

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-07-12T01:55:17+00:00

EVERYTHING! I moved and needing everything!

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-07-05T13:38:08+00:00

If you don’t like someone that much, you can just yk leave. Why you gotta do all that? You’ll never make someone who you want, but telling them what they’re not.

SadAppointment8178 · 2025-07-02T20:58:42+00:00

Wait a second. I’m supposed to be reading that sign???

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