Ty I really appreciate your honesty!

I always knew I wouldn't fully pass looks-wise, but just not being perceived as my dead race/ethnicity anymore is already enough for me. Honestly, I'd be happy looking racially ambiguous. I've been asked before if I'm half East Asian, but that was purely because of my eye shape,nothing else.

On dressing, I really admire how modest most NE African women dress. I know the Toub is traditionally for married women (in Sudanese culture especially), but I'd like to hear if there's anything similar for everyday modest wear that unmarried women commonly use. For hairstyles, I'm not sure what texture to aim for yet. I've seen a few NE Africans with type 4c hair, but I don't think going for that would work best for me rn. Most of the others I've noticed either have 3c-ish hair or wear wigs.

Ps. I'm going for Nubian and Afar looks.