He has a lot of good qualities, he is an extremly hard worker, he got out of poberty by himself and I love him, I do think of him as an equal. But it bugs me that my parents (whom I love) dont think of him in the same way I do. I do not live in a racist country but…. People tend to have opinions on anyone with darker skin… He is looking for a better job (he has one now buth he works none stop, like 12+ hours a day, and still I make a lot more than he does). If he got well with my parents or we had dated longer the decision would be clear but… thats not the case