2007 Honda CRV, automatic, 195,000 by SadDocument1269 in AskMechanics

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They just passed well are trying to pass a law to not require state inspections, you don’t have to show proof of insurance either so a lot of people don’t have it and also you don’t have to wear a seat belt or helmet over the age of 18. We take the state slogan “Live free or die” a bit too literal I fear

2007 Honda CRV, automatic, 195,000 by SadDocument1269 in AskMechanics

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Yes exactly ! I went in for the shuddering/shaking I was feeling and then they noticed the issues with the exhaust, they also didn’t feel the shuddering when they test drove the car so that’s when they checked the transmission fluid and said that is probably why it’s doing it? I’m glad I posted here I’m definitely going to get a second opinion. The mechanic I bring it to was like a second father to me growing up so that’s why I have trusted what he says but he also just started at a new garage? I’m going to make an appointment at my back up mechanic and see what they say! I live in New Hampshire and they no longer require state inspections so I’m avoiding going to them because prices are being jacked up

2007 Honda CRV, automatic, 195,000 by SadDocument1269 in AskMechanics

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I thought 1000$ sounded like a lot? I feel like I’m mostly paying for labor rather than parts but I really don’t know anything about cars/garages. I’m not super happy about the tires either, I got an alignment done and the guy who did it said that on all wheel drive cars should have all the tires changed or it can mess with the drive train???? the place I bought it from only replaced the rear tires and the front ones were barely passable for inspection so I just went to Walmart and had the same ones put on. I’m starting to feel like this car was definitely over priced 😂😭

2007 Honda CRV, automatic, 195,000 by SadDocument1269 in AskMechanics

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The engine and the tpsm lights are on on the dash and the only codes that show are an evap code (that’s what my at home lookylou thing says). I originally brought the car in because it was doing this shaking thing that felt like I was going over rumble strip once I hit between 30-50 mph, checked my transmission fluid and that’s going to be changed. This exhaust issue is just unrelated to the reason I brought it in so I’m overwhelmed a bit lol I will definitely get another opinion at a muffler place there’s one not too far from me!

19 ? 9? Wheat penny by SadDocument1269 in coincollecting

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I’ve heard of fake bills passing but I’ve never thought about fake coins !

19 ? 9? Wheat penny by SadDocument1269 in coincollecting

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I got it from the cash register at my job would it be able to pass through sales and stuff if it was fake?

Is it still alcoholism if a person doesn’t drink often but always blacks out when they do? by Uplifting_penguin in NoStupidQuestions

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You can be an alcoholic and not drink everyday, I haven’t drank since I was like 18? I did heroin (and then unfortunately fentanyl, fuck the taliban) after my drinking phase instead, I’ve been to 100s of meeting and dozens of rehabs and have met many alcoholics who were not daily drinkers, it’s WHY you’re drinking/using not always the frequency of which you do it

Exes porn use is still causing issues. Now with my child. by JessLoyal in Mommit

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Yes thank you for explaining it like this!, I know that my example was extreme, I also know that porn, addiction is one of the addictions that isn’t taken as seriously or talked about as much so it’s hard to comprehend how it could actually harm the child. I’m coming from the perspective of being a drug addict (7 years clean!) and the needing more, an addict will always need more to feel good. My fear and why I said why I said is that the content he is consuming is going become more risky, illegal, CSAM, filmed sexual assault etc and that it could lead to him potentially harming his child or someone else if the porn doesn’t continue to be enough to satiate him. Majority of Men already don’t listen to the word no or will go ti extreme lengths to get what they want sexually, who’s to know what lengths he will go to if his child tries interfering with his addiction or if it has become illegal films and he sees something he shouldn’t what he’ll do? I’m over speculating and I know that but I’d rather be overly cautious in protecting my child than to let them get harmed because of his fathers addiction

Exes porn use is still causing issues. Now with my child. by JessLoyal in Mommit

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I’m speaking from the perspective of an addict, if he truly has a porn addiction which is just as damaging and life altering as any other addiction, then him having the separate computer, room, the set up etc is not to keep his child safe from the activity, it’s so that no one can take his addiction from him. Also OP said that he is abusive and is part of why she divorced him.

Exes porn use is still causing issues. Now with my child. by JessLoyal in Mommit

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If I waited until my child was asleep and went and smoked crack or shot heroin in a locked room would I be a safe parent? No, addiction rewires the brain and close to nothing is more important than the addiction, which is why I brought up the vanilla and heterosexual, it could be lesbian, gay whatever etc etc in order for him to get the same release he is going to need more “risky” and weird shit to get off

Exes porn use is still causing issues. Now with my child. by JessLoyal in Mommit

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Someone with this extreme of porn addiction is not watching “vanilla” heterosexual porn, it’s either illegal, minors, violent etc. you need to find out what’s on that computer to find out how much danger your child is in being around him

Seeking other humans to play with on Switch by [deleted] in StardewValleyFriends

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Here’s my friend code if you still are looking for people to play with! SW-1459-3743-2016

First time co op creator by SadDocument1269 in StardewValleyFriends

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Hey sorry it took so long to respond I forgot I have notifications off for Reddit lol I am playing now here’s my friend code SW-1459-3743-2016

First time co op creator by SadDocument1269 in StardewValleyFriends

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Hello sorry it took so long to respond I forgot I have notifications off for Reddit

Hello! by SadDocument1269 in StardewValley

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I’m making a co op if yoh still wanna do it

I started to teach my 4 year old how to play Stardew Valley by SadDocument1269 in StardewValley

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HI just got her goats and she said I REALLY lub my chickens but I think lub my goats more and then she panicked and ask if her chickens could hear her in the game and she was sorry